[The most promising] can be understood as life, career, and family. In fact, in our era, in the foreseeable and visible future, no matter when, the most promising children have some commonalities.

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[Most promising] can be understood as life, career, and family.

has a time period set here, 10 years! In fact, in our era, in the foreseeable and visible future, no matter when, the most promising children have some commonalities.

And parents, the child's original family, are the biggest factors that affect children.

1, good parental relationship

This is a foundation and the background color of a child's future life development.

A loving couple and a mutually respectful couple are the references for the child's future family relationship, and basically the template for the child's new family.

If the parents have a bad relationship (all kinds of bad), you can imagine what your child will know about the family and the lover in the future.

If the child realizes the problem and actively learns and improves, at most he spends more energy and hopes to improve. And if the child thinks it is normal, then if you think about it, you have a wrong idea and act well, it depends entirely on luck.

2. Parents have their own pursuits

Parents should not put all their energy and psychology on their children, but should have their own pursuits in life.

Children are very important, but not the only one in life.

has its own pursuit. Only by not keeping your eyes on your children can you go into battle lightly.

parents will also lose a lot of anxiety.

3. Parents are positive and optimistic, and do not retreat when encountering things

Nine out of ten things that are not satisfactory in life. It's time to test your parents.

When encountering difficulties, we can face them calmly, actively find ways, and work hard to solve them. Even if you don’t succeed, you will have worked hard and you will not regret it.

If you encounter a problem, your parents will be frustrated and sigh, looking like the end of the world.

, then believe me, this is basically the situation where your family will face difficulties in the future.

4. Parents will hope to give their own efforts instead of "wanting their children to be successful"

is actually similar to the second one.

The first thing parents need to do is to work hard and become what they expect.

instead of playing mahjong by yourself and urging the child to do his homework.

itself is a pool of mud, and he is yelling, "You can't learn from me, you want to do whatever you want."

Don’t you know that “the son of a dragon gives birth to a dragon, a phoenix gives birth to a phoenix, and a mouse can dig holes”?

5. Timely adjust the way to love children according to different ages

Children of different ages have different needs for us to love.

For example, babies need our whole body to take care of them, and take care of their food, drink, defecation and urination.

If you are older, you should go to kindergarten. You should learn to dress, eat, organize your clothes, get along with children, and get along with teachers.

Later, when he went to elementary school, he had to cultivate his correct study habits.

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will never interfere.

When children want to learn to eat, you are very afraid of trouble. This is love, but the expression is wrong.

6. Be willing to let go of your child

Don’t hold your child firmly in your own hands.

He is an independent individual with his own independent thoughts.

We must respect children's ideas, even if they are very absurd.

often hear and see that the son is married, and his parents still want to control everything in the small family.

Especially after the daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, it was simply a history of disaster. Why is this happening with

? It’s because parents are reluctant to let go of their children. Unwilling to admit that the child is getting farther and farther away. I also want to prove that I am still an omnipotent parent, and you still love me the most.

7. Always believe in children

Parents’ belief will make children believe in themselves more.

So what if others don’t believe it? Do I have my most trusted parents whom I believe in?

so that the child has the confidence to keep moving forward.

8. Parents always open their children to their children

Children will always encounter difficulties of one kind or another. If you have anything you might feel lost and have no hope of life.

If there is a pair of parents who will always accept themselves.

No matter what situation you are in a downturn, your parents’ home will always be open to you, and you can come back here to heal your wounds at any time.

I believe that children will never be disappointed in this world. After the repair, continue on the road.

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There are roughly four conditions for whether a child has a future:

First, there are strict tutors, and parents are the children and the first teacher. What kind of parents (parents) raise what kind of children. As the saying goes, planting melons will bring you the melons, and planting beans will bring you the beans. The seeds are the flowers that bloom and bear the fruits of the flowers. This is called causal relationship, and we must recognize this causal relationship in educating people. Family education has a direct relationship with family style to the future of children. This is the most important one. Some families are particularly poor, but the children of poor people have early started to be a family, have good ideological and moral qualities, are good at doing things, and are hardworking and hardworking. As a result, many children of poor people have won their parents' enthusiasm and were admitted to universities or even prestigious universities. There are not many such examples in China.

2 has a certain economic foundation, but the requirements are not too high. As long as you have to go to family life, you can find a way to spend money to get your children to school. It is not a good thing for your children to spend enough money. If you spend too much money and spend too much money on your children, it will harm your children.

3: It is better for the children's parents to have a certain level of education, which is also a necessary and best condition for children to have a future. If this condition is met, it will give the children a chance to have a future, rather than an absolute condition. It depends on how parents teach their wisdom to their children.

: The four children's own efforts are the key. A child’s success is not taught by the teacher. The most fundamental thing depends on the child’s own efforts. If you don’t work hard, don’t endure hardships, don’t study hard, and don’t use your brain, no wise teacher will be able to make such a child grow up and have a future. The road is all about walking by yourself, and others, parents, and teachers cannot help. Therefore, everything has to be achieved by yourself and realize your dreams.

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The British BBC once filmed a documentary, shooting and tracking every seven years, and lasted for 49 years, recording the development of children from different families and different classes. The last one was filmed in 2012 and was called "56up". These former children are all 56 years old. The facts have proved that social classes are indeed insurmountable, but there will be exceptions.

Children who are not very good from families often drop out of school early, get married early, get pregnant early, and have children early. In the end, most of their children enter the same fate as their parents.

families with good family conditions, most of their children are admitted to prestigious schools and become elites such as lawyers.

It is worth pondering that a farmer and rancher's child was admitted to , Oxford University , because of the inspiration and encouragement of his teacher and his interest in physics, and finally became a professor at a famous university.

Therefore, although family status and class play an important role, their own reasons are also very important. Although my country's college entrance examination system has been criticized by many people, it is indeed the fairest, simplest and most convenient shortcut to success.

What is scary is not that you don’t work hard, but that you work harder than you.

I once met a senior sister who went to the United States alone. It sounds like she felt that her family was very rich, but I don’t know how many detours she took and how many circles she went for exams and visa materials. Her family only has her mother and she is also a female worker. She always studied for loans in college, but she won the full prize. She said at the time: Actually, I was also very scared, so I gritted my teeth and persevered.

Perhaps, children with better family conditions have high-quality educational resources and better educational opportunities, but as long as they know how to work hard for themselves, no matter what kind of family, there will be successful people.

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Currently, a 10--20-year-old child has entered society in ten years. That is, students from elementary school to high school! Judging from the current tutoring, promising children should come from such families:

1. Parents are educated and do not spoil their children, so they take care of their children themselves!

2. Parents understand that their children should develop comprehensively, cultivate morality, intelligence, physical fitness, aesthetics and labor, arrange activities and time in a planned manner, enrich their children's lives, not only pay attention to intellectual education, but also give their children opportunities for practice.

3. The traditional cultural etiquette of the motherland is combined with modern thoughts. The current reliance on parents and Western independence are valued by parents. Parents should not live as slaves to their children! For example, the phenomenon of healthy children in the second and third grade who are one thousand meters away from home should be eliminated by picking up and dropping off the children in their seventies to school.

4. Parents will think, clarify their responsibilities, know that they are their children’s classrooms, and how to design your own classrooms with your brain and implementation, without shirking responsibility, and not complaining about the world! Be a responsible person! That is, a family that can cultivate children's sound personality, comprehensive qualities, and correct outlook on life and worldview!

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How to position "prosperous"? People from different classes have a promising and have very different positionings on . For example, the rural baby was admitted to university through his own efforts, and after graduation, he found a job in the city, working hard for the house, his wife and children. In the eyes of his rural parents, in that village, he was a very promising person.

children from families whose parents are loving can have a future. I also disagree. According to the current social elites in China, many people come from divorced families or families with marginalized marriages. For example, the current Prime Minister Tan Bao in Australia is also from a divorced family. Tan Bao's daughter-in-law, Yvonne Wang, is a Chinese native who grew up in Hong Kong and currently lives in Singapore . He is the director of the public relations department of the Asia department of the travel website TripAdvisor (Triad Advisor). His father is Wang Chunming, the earliest and most proficient scholar in China who studied in the United States, and his mother is Tu Chongling, a musician who studied in Canada. Growing up in such a family, she is a white, rich and beautiful social elite. She married into the Australian head of state as a wife, which is also very promising, right?

So it is hard to say where the most promising child comes from in 10 years. But on WeChat, some friends are professors from famous Chinese universities. They themselves are teachers who cultivate senior talents for the country. Their children have lived in an environment with a strong academic atmosphere since childhood. The parents of every child are senior talents in various majors. They will naturally not relax their education, nor will they be as blind as ordinary people and grassroots classes. When we were still asking whether to enroll our children in cram school and interest classes, these children had already developed comprehensively in morality, intelligence and physical fitness under the leadership of senior intellectual parents. Parents who are rich, leisurely, knowledgeable, well-informed, and have overseas study experience have long been studying abroad for them, and have set scientific training plans based on their children's strengths. Through the daily information of these children's parents' circle of friends, I can foresee that these children have learned how to invent and create at a young age. In the ocean of knowledge, under the influence of art, in the stadium, and in the careful observation of plants, and in the growth and changes of animals, they have long belonged to the dragon and phoenix among their peers. These children who have been exposed to the most cutting-edge and comprehensive knowledge since childhood will definitely become very promising people in the future, and a considerable number of them will definitely become pillars of the country.

So what kind of family the most promising child must first come from a family that is capable of providing children's personal development and paying attention to comprehensive education of morality, intelligence and physical fitness. With positive values ​​and positive parents can participate in their children's daily education, which can achieve twice the result with half the effort in cultivating a promising child.

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In fact, there is no need to wait until 10 years later, the most promising children come from the family, no matter which era they are in, have a common characteristic: they have a good family tradition.

Fu Lei When his son Fu Cong went to Poland to study, he reminded: Being a person is the first; secondly, being an artist; secondly, being a musician; lastly, being a pianist.

In the letters between his father and son, Fu Lei has been repeatedly emphasized by him as the first person.

There is a family that is still prosperous after thousands of years. This family has produced more than 200 academicians, and there are elites in any industry. When it comes to the names of this family, many of them are well-known.

he is Qian family .

physicist Qian Xuesen , Qian Sanqiang , mechanic Qian Weichang , historian Qian Mu , linguist Qian Xuantong , scholar Qian Zhongshu , biologist Qian Xi, water conservancy teen Qian Zhengying, etc.

traced back to the Song Dynasty, and the Qian family produced a total of 350 Jinshi and more than 1,000 celebrities. What is

that makes this family contribute so many well-known figures to the country?

because it has a righteous spirit and a family tradition of family tradition.

People who are familiar with traditional culture should know a book called " Qian Family Instructions ". Qianjia Every child is born, the whole family must read it. This has been circulated for more than 1,000 years, and the Qian family is still following this ancestral teaching.

So, what is the content of "Qian Family Instructions"? Let’s take a look:

Do not plan for the benefit of oneself, but must be planned for the benefit of the world; if the benefit is not planned for the time, it must be planned for the benefit of the benefit of the whole world;

mind and skills should not offend heaven and earth, and words and deeds should not be ashamed of sages;

Although descendants are foolish, they must read poetry and books, diligence and thrift are the basis, and loyalty and loyalty can last forever.

Qian family has always followed the ancestral teachings, with the purpose of cultivating every descendant to be a pillar of the country and the people. Such family virtues and family traditions with a mindful mind on the country and the world are admirable. How can such a family not be born?

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High level of life determines the height of life of children 10 years later.

is not difficult to imagine that no matter rich or poor, if parents are narrow-minded, ignorant, lazy and listless, it is impossible to cultivate excellent children!

This is indeed an era of fighting for fathers, not only for money and status, but also for tutoring!

Objectively speaking, a wealthy family may cultivate two kinds of children, one is a very outstanding pillar of talent, and the other is a playboy who does not seek to improve.

parents who are good at educating children, know how to use existing resources and social relationships to create a better growth environment for children, let children receive a better education, know how to create a harmonious family atmosphere, and let children grow up well.

parents who are not good at educating their children may be spoiled and cultivate children who do not know how to be rich. Such parents do not know how to improve themselves, but only know how to squander money. They think that what they don’t lack is money. They think that the money they earn is enough for their children to live for several lifetimes, but ignore the education of their children. When the child grows up, it is very likely that he will go astray in a short time, live a depraved life, and soon lose all his wealth!

There are two types of children born in poor families. One is parents who know how to cultivate children. If the children they train, work hard step by step, and you will achieve something. The other is of course struggling on the poverty line like the previous generation.

Education is too important, and educational philosophy is the decisive factor.

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10 years later, the most promising child should basically have the following qualities:

1: Thinking training, thinking training, thinking training from an early age.

2: Reading classics, reading requires quality, not judging heroes by quantity, but winning by quality.

3: A good environment and background for educational growth.

4: Be prescient about future needs.

5: Noble character, cheerful personality, and sound personality.

6: Under the concept of whole-person education, the improvement of comprehensive literacy in all aspects.

7: Learning ability, creativity, adaptability, self-discipline, outstanding.

8: The ability to reflect on oneself and correct oneself. Good at leveraging power, good at leveraging stronger supporters