Recently, a netizen posted that his cousin's behavior made the teacher no longer care about her children.
It turned out that the child was hit by the palm of the head teacher at school with a ruler. When the netizen's cousin knew about it, he asked the head teacher to make a big fuss. In the end, the principal promised to punish the head teacher who beat people to stop. However, from then on, the teacher no longer dared to care about the child, and the child was even less interested in studying. He played games at home with his mobile phone during holidays and did not do his homework at all. In the words of the child, the teacher dared not criticize him now and would not check his homework.
This trouble by parents may cause the head teacher to be punished certainly, which means that on the surface, the parents won, but the parents actually lost completely. Because, from the moment she was making trouble, the teachers in the school no longer dared to care about her children, which means that no matter whether the children learn well or badly in school, teachers will choose to turn a blind eye. Of course, if the parents do well in family education, , the child can still learn well. Otherwise, after the child enters society, the society will help her educate her children, but it was too late at that time, and it was too late to regret it.
In fact, there are many parents like this netizen's cousin's wife in reality. These parents believe that their children are reluctant to beat them, so why should teachers beat them? So as long as the teacher punishes their children, no matter what the reason is, they will ask the teacher to argue. To put it nicely, it’s the theory, to put it badly, it’s the school that makes , and the final result is often that the teacher is punished, which leads to the teacher becoming less and less afraid to control students. Buddhist teachers are born like this, and the children are ultimately hurt.
In fact, for parents, they must correctly view teachers' educational behavior, especially educational punishment behavior.
The child was punished by the teacher at school. As a parent, the first thing to do is to understand the reasons for the punishment from both the child and the teacher. If it is indeed a child’s problem, then parents should stand on the teacher’s side and patiently reason with their children, point out what the child has done wrong, and at the same time tell their children the correct way. If it is indeed a teacher's problem, parents should not be too impulsive. Instead, they should communicate with the teacher calmly in private, and encourage their children to tell them that they are right, but they should also safeguard the teacher's dignity in front of their children, otherwise the child will disrespect the teacher.
Of course, those parents who like to find teachers to argue may be that they are spoiled for their children on the one hand, but there is another reason that is easy to be ignored, that is, negative news about teachers is reported from time to time, which reduces the trust of many parents in teachers, and thus treats normal educational punishment as corporal punishment, resulting in some extreme actions.
No matter what, after the child was punished by the teacher, this parent went to school to make trouble without discrimination, which made the teacher dare not care about the child. The child was still the one who suffered the loss in the end, which was really not worth it.
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