I am a single mother. I have been divorced for more than ten years and I raised my son alone with hard work. This year, when my child graduated from college and went out to work, I was reluctant to let him go at first, and the relationship between mother and son was very tense. Later, in order to ease the relationship between mother and son, I had to agree to him to make the decision. From the day my child went to another province to look for a job, I was inexplicably worried, afraid and anxious every day, which made me unable to sleep all night. Fearing that he was not familiar with the place, he encountered a pyramid scheme scammer, worried about the danger he had... The sudden change caught me off guard. One day, I accidentally saw an article on the headline, which made me feel a little relieved. Experts said that parents should learn to let go appropriately and let their children grow up. When the children grow up, they have their own independent personality, independent space and independent way of thinking. This is actually a good thing, which means that the children grow up and become independent, and they have strong abilities. Just like a bird that has full wings, it must spread its wings and fly high. I understand that our mothers have never changed their concern for children, because The care given to children by single-parent families will be more important. It is indeed a necessary protection when children are young, but when children grow up and are independent, they will be disgusted by the fact that they care a little more, believing that it is a constraint on freedom and independence. Therefore, we parents should also learn to change their personalities and habits, change the way of love, try to understand children, respect their children's choices, learn to let go, and let children fly freely in the vast sky like an eagle!
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