The neighbor's child came to Beibei to play. Beibei was very happy and took out all the toys in the house to share with him. But every time, Beibei shouted, "I don't want to play with you anymore. These are mine. If you do this, I won't let you play.

The neighbor's child came to Beibei to play. Beibei was very happy and took out all the toys in the house to share with him. But every time, Beibei shouted, "I don't want to play with you anymore. These are mine. If you do this, I won't let you play." When the mother heard Beibei's shouting, she hurried over and learned after understanding the situation. It turned out that the neighbor's child always felt that what Beibei was holding was the most fun, and she always wanted the toys that Beibei was playing with. At the beginning, Beibei generously handed it to him. Slowly, Beibei found that if this continued, she would not be able to complete it at all, but he felt that Beibei naturally wanted to give him the injured toy because he was a guest.

Children always want other people's things and always feel that they are not cared for, mainly because the child does not know how to be grateful, he cannot feel the help others have given him, and he does not feel grateful in his heart. I even feel that my parents take care of him for granted in daily life. It should be true. I will not think that I like the toy my mother bought for me today. I want to thank my mother for cherishing this toy.

Let children learn to be grateful and let children know how to cherish what they have in front of them, not just what others have given them. Let the child see what he has now. Some people need to pay a lot of money to get the things he has, so you should know how to cherish them and be grateful for having them.

But the child’s ability to understand is limited, and adults need to use practical actions to tell him how to be grateful. You can take your child to do gratitude exercises every week and ask your child what happened today to make you feel grateful. At the beginning, the child may not feel anything and cannot think of something worthy of gratitude. He needs guidance from his parents to tell him that every help in life is gratitude. For example: The dishes made by grandma today are delicious, today my mother helped to wash clothes, today my mother studied with me... Let the child slowly see the care he has. When children see the love of their family, they will learn to be grateful. When they learn to love their family, their lives will become happier.