The vast majority of parents prefer their daughter.
When it comes to the gender of a child, most parents will hope to have their daughters. On the one hand, because their daughter is their parents' little cotton jacket and they can be more considerate in life.
On the other hand, girls spend less money in daily life than boys, and even consume less energy.
"Both children are daughters, I don't want to struggle anymore"
Nowadays, the birth policy has been introduced to encourage third children. Although this is a matter of being willing but not being able to do it, the second child can still be considered. After all, many parents have experienced the pain of only children and do not want their children to repeat the same mistakes.
However, the gender of the first child can sometimes interfere with the couple. If the first child is a boy, parents will think about it for two more days before having a second child, because if the second child is a boy, the various pressures on the parents will not be double, but many times.
If the first child is a girl, it doesn’t matter what gender the second child is. If it is a boy, it will make a pair of children. If it is a girl, it is a double-small cotton jacket. In the future, parents' happiness index will be higher in their later years.
A father in Hubei shared the good news in his account that he had welcomed another little daughter, and he immediately sent his blessings to his relatives and friends, but those who truly understand his actual situation know that he already has a eldest daughter and his happiness is double now!
, and he also revealed his current mentality and life state, and he could not feel the pressure and embarrassment brought to him by life. It is no exaggeration to say that he and his wife can live casually and there is no need to struggle at all.
Although there will be a requirement to raise a daughter with a wealthy daughter, it doesn’t matter, because my quality of life has never been disturbed. As long as I follow the usual lifestyle, even if I raise my daughter in a wealthy state, I will have almost no pressure when my daughter gets married in the future. No matter how much I pay now, the ones who are cheaper in the future will be the son-in-law and the in-laws.
As soon as the father finished speaking, it caused netizens to complain about
His efforts and gains to his daughter should be proportional to
In his father's remarks, we can realize that this father is really cheap and obedient. On the one hand, he said that he can enjoy life after he has two daughters, and he does not have to think about saving houses and land for the children from the birth of a family like a family with a son.
On the other hand, he complained in another way that his two daughters could not help him pass on his family line. As the saying goes, the water splashed by the married daughter. After the daughter gets married, no matter how often he goes home, he will communicate with him, and he will be greatly affected. At that time, he will be left to be sad alone.
Although this father’s thoughts are understandable. As an old father’s true thoughts, isn’t such a pessimistic idea a bit overwhelming? Do he feel that the daughter he educated must be unfilial?
After all, parents' care for their daughter will be responded to one day in the future. If the daughter realizes that their parents do not have much care for them, they will definitely give it as much as they repay their parents.
Parents and children themselves are unable to choose from each other
We often say that children are gifts given to each couple by God, just like opening a blind box, everything is unknown before the child is born. Even children cannot choose their own parents and family background, so they naturally have an advantage over children born in ordinary families who do not have the golden spoon in their hands.
But even so, doesn’t every child still love his parents unconditionally? Similarly, parents should also dedicate their entireties to their children, because who can their children rely on besides relying on their own parents?
Even if the gender of the child is different from your idea, this is by no means the reason why they receive unfair treatment when they are born. If they really can't control their hearts, parents can think from the perspective of others. How would you feel if this happens to you? Then you will be able to suddenly realize.
Today’s summary:
If you have two daughters, are you happy or depressed? Welcome to share your thoughts with us!
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