"Why should she stand on the moral high ground and accus me of not loving children? Just because I used cheap diapers for the children?" Xiaoxue complained angrily to her husband Li Feng who came home from get off work.
Xiaoxue is a full-time mother. She got pregnant shortly after marrying her husband Li Feng. Because she had a big reaction during pregnancy, she also had to stay in bed for pregnancy due to bleeding in the early stage, so she simply resigned and took care of her baby at home.
Xiaoxue was urged by her family to go on a blind date at the age of 25. She met Li Feng, who was already 30 years old at the time. Because they were all for marriage, the two got married after half a year of getting together.
Xiaoxue's mother asked Xiaoxue to give birth early and recover while she was young. Xiaoxue was unwilling to do so at first, but thinking about her husband's age and her parents-in-law's expectations, she no longer deliberately contraceptive and wanted to let it go. As a result, she became pregnant half a year later.
After giving birth to a child, Xiaoxue wanted to return to the workplace, but her mother-in-law was in poor health and could not help her take care of the child. She didn't want her father-in-law to take care of her. She felt that men were careless and were elderly people, so she couldn't take care of such a young child.
Xiaoxue's mother has not retired yet and can't help her. Xiaoxue remembered that her elders urged her to get married and gave birth, but no one could help. She was so angry that she cried for a few days, and she became even more angry that she had no opinion.
There is no way now, she can only continue to take care of her children at home. Fortunately, her husband is considerate of her and will share housework after work and take care of her children. She also took the initiative to hand over the salary card, which made Xiaoxue feel a little.
And Xiaoxue's parents will buy a lot of vegetables and fruits to see them on weekends, make a good meal, prepare some semi-finished dishes for Xiaoxue and put them in the refrigerator, so that Xiaoxue will be much easier to cook.
My husband is considerate to her, so she naturally feels sorry for her husband to support her family alone. After giving birth, she never bought new clothes again, and no longer bought so many bottles and jars of skin care products. A bottle of children's cream is solved.
The children's wear is also very cost-effective. They don't choose those big maternal and child brands. However, considering the special diapers, she bought two types, one of which is relatively expensive. Children use them at night. After all, they don't have to change them frequently during the day, so they use them during the day cheaper.
I didn’t expect that because of these diapers, others would criticize and criticize them.
Usually Xiaoxue will take her child to chat with other mothers who take care of her children in the community and share her experience in raising children.
That day, she changed her child's diapers. A mother saw her and asked her, "Why have you never heard of the brand of diapers you wear for your child?"
"This brand was also recommended to me by others, and there are many people who said they use it!" Xiaoxue didn't care too much and replied casually.
"You must be something from a small workshop. I haven't heard of it, nor have you seen a maternal and child shop. You're too saving. You can't bear to spend money on raising a child, otherwise it's better not to have a child. The child is pitiful." The mother felt that Xiaoxue was too irresponsible to the child.
Xiaoxue was angry and didn't know why the other party suddenly accused her. She didn't want to argue with her. She cleaned up her child and said hello to the mother she knew, and got up and left. While walking, she heard the mother muttering to others, "Look at her dressing, she is so stingy to the child. She is reluctant to spend money on the child, so don't give birth to the child. The child is too pitiful."
"I just don't want to be a sloppy mother. These clothes were also bought by me at work. These diapers were also made by regular manufacturers, but they are not big brands. Why don't I be reluctant to spend money on the child?" Xiaoxue said to her husband aggrievedly.
Li Feng comforted his wife, "Don't be angry. It's not an outsider's turn to judge whether she loves her children or not. Don't worry about her words. Some people just can't speak, so don't pay attention to her."
Every family has different financial conditions, and raising children is naturally different, but parents are within their own abilities and strive to give their children the best.
We cannot say that using cheap things for children means not loving children. Raising children is not a matter of overnight. From an early age, children should also have a certain understanding of their own family, rather than ordinary families desperately using famous brands for their children, which means loving children.
Love children should focus on nourishing the spiritual world, rather than offerings that are completely reflected in material things.
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