Just imagine, after you have finished your work week, you finally decide to relax and watch a movie on the weekend. However, during the movie, the children behind you kick the back of your seat. How do you feel? How do you feel when you hold back your displeasure and politely tell your child not to kick your seat, but he kicks harder? You changed your expression and thought about scaring the naughty child, but his father came up and gave you a seat, and you hit your head on it, causing a slight concussion. How do you feel?
Normal people will feel that it is quite unlucky, and the good mood for the day ends here. It can be said that behind the first naughty child, there is a naughty parent. The father in the news above not only did not stop his child's impolite behavior, but instead helped him to do harm. He mentioned administrative detention , which can be said to be self-inflicted. Eat the consequences.
We can’t help but ask: Is it really good for the children to dote on them so much and let them do whatever they want?
Some parents make food for their children right away when they want something to eat, and buy things for their children when they want something. Even if their children want stars in the sky, they can’t wait to move a ladder to pick them down for them. Not to mention what if the children see something good in the hands of one of their peers and cry and want it right away, but what if they can’t make it or buy it right away? Take it from other children!
These bear parents don’t want to see their children suffer any grievance. If their children have a dispute with other children, no matter who is right or wrong, their children cannot suffer any loss. Even if their children are in the wrong, if they are arguing with other children If a child suffers a lot in an argument, he will definitely roll up his sleeves and go straight to the field.
Are all these things really good for children?
In the short term, this seems to be the case. No one dares to mess with their children, and they can get whatever they like. This is something you cannot do unless you love your children to the extreme.
But love does not mean doting. It is just blind preference without teaching children the principles of life. Such doting, in addition to cultivating the child's arrogant and self-centered character since childhood, is really not beneficial to the child at all. After all, it is no longer in ancient times. No one is a slave to another family, and even if the slave owner blindly oppresses and exploits the slaves, the slaves will still rise up.
You need to know the old saying that "Evil people will have their own troubles", and there is also a saying that "God is watching what you do." The arrogant kid will one day encounter a "hard rock" who will not get used to his bad habits. "The "bear parents" who love to stand up for their children may not be able to match others' righteousness.
Instead of being beaten to death, it is better to educate people from an early age on what should be done and what should not be done in this society. To cure naughty children, we must start with the parents. This is exactly what it means:
No matter how good it is to take care of your children, you must pay close attention to basic education.
is greedy for petty gains and suffers big losses. This parent is unreliable.
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