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Born to be a human being, who is not a first-time parent?
Adolescent children are rebellious and difficult to educate. Many parents are helpless for this. Mother's Day has just passed, and the creativity of some schools in Xiangyang, Hubei is very good. It will make children understand the difficulty of motherhood.
As we all know, the meaning of Mother's Day is to let children appreciate their mothers, understand their reproductive sacrifices, and the hard work they put in in the process of educating themselves. This is a festival to express love.
However, for some rebellious children who are in adolescence, the relationship between and their mother has become rigid due to lack of communication.
On Mother's Day, students were asked to wear "fake pregnant belly", and the school's "Thanksgiving education" became popular.
In order to let children experience the hardships of mothers giving birth, two days before Mother's Day, school teachers asked students to wear "Thanksgiving education" throughout the day. Fake Pregnant Belly" class.
In order to better feel the discomfort of mothers during pregnancy, the school has changed the way of class on this day to increase the time for children to stand.
Ma Yuming from this school, his mother prepared a "fake pregnancy belly" of three or four pounds. Before wearing it, did he still think about three or four pounds? Should be fine.
, but after wearing it for a long time, I obviously feel tired. is not suitable for walking, running and jumping, and it is very stressful. That's it.
In this regard, the mothers of the children also accepted interviews. Ms. Lu said that in order to let the children feel the feeling of pregnancy more truly, she also specially restored the weight of the child at birth by 1:1, and made a 7kg and 22 taels.” Fake belly", which can be described as the heaviest one in the whole school.
But she still joked in front of the camera: 7 jins 2 taels, I still put water in, This has not yet added the weight of amniotic fluid!
Seriously, it is estimated that pregnancy is the most unforgettable thing for every mother. No matter how old the child is, the original scene is still vivid in my mind.
On Mother's Day, students are asked to wear "fake pregnant belly". This school has really opened up their minds, and I personally think it's great. When it comes to feeling the hardships of my mother, personal experience is better than empty talk.
However, there is no real empathy in this world
Most netizens agree with the school's practice, but there are still suggestions for improvement. They think that this kind of behavior alone cannot make the child truly appreciate the hardships of the mother's pregnancy.
A mother shared her weight changes during pregnancy: I weighed 140 jins when I gave birth, and 117 jins when my baby was full moon. How can I realize these 23 jins only in 3 or 4 jins.
Yes, the weight gain of expectant mothers during pregnancy, not only includes the weight of the child, but also the placenta, amniotic fluid, etc. , basically more than 20 pounds.
Moreover, the compression of the internal organs caused by the enlarged uterus, as well as the physical pains such as edema, nausea, and frequent urination during pregnancy, cannot be felt by wearing a "fake belly", only a real mother can experience it firsthand.
However, although the child can only have a one-sided experience of the mother's feelings when she is pregnant through this method, it does allow the child to understand the difficulty of the mother to a certain extent. This kind of empathy education is better than just teaching the child to say "Thank you" to the mother. You" are much better.
This sentence is like a blessing that only appears frequently in the circle of friends every year on Mother's Day. It can't be said that there is no sincerity, but the person who said it has a certain degree of sincerity and it is indeed worth thinking about, naturally it is not comparable to actual actions.
I hope that more and more schools can implement such a practical gratitude course in the future, so that children can be less temperamental and communicate more with their parents, so that it is not easy to truly understand their parents.
Written at the end
On May 9th this year, did you give your mother any gift?
Whether it is a student busy with homework or a migrant worker far away from home, every mother is looking forward to seeing her child on this day, whether it is a special trip, or a simple video, a voice call, she always Hope to hear your voice and hear you tell about interesting things that happened recently,
Don't let face and distance be a problem between you and her, Don't talk to your mother only on certain holidays, don't always think A mother's love is natural.
I just chat with my mother when I have time, it's such a simple thing, she will laugh contentedly when she puts down the phone.
The school held a thanksgiving activity to make the children more empathetic and to understand the mother's hard work from the heart. Personal experience is always more effective than preaching. Don't let gratitude education just be a formality.
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