Don’t you know that when I first came, the child was too thin, skinny, thin neck, and big head. At first glance, he looked like a strong bald head.
This is how a grandmother described her grandson as thin. This metaphor was used appropriately and amused me.
Yesterday morning, I took the children to the playground. The community wanted to design the ground without planting flowers and plants, and paving stones, so I pulled sand and cobblestones and piled them on the square. This can provide for the children. They are all surrounded by toys for play, some playing with sand, some playing with stones, and they don't leave as they call them.
A chubby little boy, about the same size as my grandson, he played very hard, his grandma didn't move anymore, he kept saying he would play for a while.
His grandma said, "If you don't go, I will sit on the stool next to me for a while.
My grandson also couldn't move, so I also went to sit and play with the grandma, and I was only more than ten meters away from the child.
is also for children, and grandma's topics are also children, so we started talking.
It turns out that their child is the same age as my child, but his child is half a year older than mine. However, the two of them stood together. Although they were about the same size, the difference between fat and thin was big. His child was dark-skinned, chubby, and his fingers were all fleshy.
Looking at my child again, his face is yellowish and thin, his head is a circle smaller than her child, and he looks obviously malnourished.
I asked her for the secret recipe for feeding the children,She said that there is no secret recipe, just what the child likes to eat, so she won't stop it.
She said that when he first came, the child was thin and small, with bones all over his body, yellow and little hair, and a long and thin neck, which looked like a strong bald head.
I asked, why are children so thin?
It turned out that her grandson was skinny since she was a child, and often got sick. He traveled to major hospitals and couldn't find the root cause of the disease. Later, she was optimistic in a small hospital. The child was sick, and of course he couldn't eat and sleep. No, how do you grow meat?
She has two grandsons. The eldest grandson grew up with him and is now ten years old. She is also a fat one. She went to the kindergarten in her hometown and was taken to the city to study by his parents in the first grade. She followed Here, because the little grandson is not allowed to go back to his hometown, he goes to kindergarten in the city.
The little grandson grew up with her parents. Her daughter-in-law can feed the children carefully and carefully. What kind of scientific feeding, holding books, selling now, using the child as an experiment, raising the child like a child It's like a chicken.
Since she came, she has taken over the task of feeding the child. Although her native method of feeding is unscientific, the child is getting fatter day by day.
Although the son and daughter-in-law cannot understand her native method, they can see that the child is lively and cheerful, and the chubby face, and there is nothing to say.
She said that the child never likes to eat eggs. She would not eat when she saw the shadow of eggs. She broke the eggs and mixed them into flour to make noodles, pancakes, and children. Eat it in the stomach.
Children like to eat dumplings,She packs everything every week, and she has all kinds of fillings, and what the child wants to eat.
Once, he saw that his grandson loves meat muffins, so when he returned to his hometown, he bought him a large bag for more than 20 yuan.
When my son met, he said, "How do you buy this kind of junk food for your child? You don't feel safe and you will eat it badly."
She said, what is junk food, everyone eats it, and there is nothing wrong with it. My child loves to eat, so I bought some for him. I don’t eat it every day. I eat it once in a while. What's wrong with it? You buy expensive and nutritious things for your child every day, and raise the child like a bald head with a big head. It's not as good as the child I feed, eat cheaply, and don't get sick.
my son is silent, because this is the case?
Now the child is healthy, and the children from other families love to catch colds in kindergarten. My child never catches a cold and can be active in school.
Now he can not only memorize several ancient poems, but also write numbers. Although the writing is not neat, he may write numbers from 1 to 30, and he can also speak English!
Did his parents teach it? I ask.
No, I learned it on the computer by myself. Grandma said.
Oh, it's amazing, I have my own computer at such a young age. The grandmother of the child said that it was the learning machine his father bought him, and it cost more than 4,000 yuan. Not only these, but also sent the children to early education classes and studied for a period of time.
So that is the case, his parents also paid the price. The grandmother said that when her little grandson was two and a half years old, she still couldn't speak, so she attended the early education class.
Our grandson is also in the same situation. He will not speak until he is three years old. Before he is three years old, he is like a dumb, except that he will be called by the family’s name, father, mother,Except for simple titles such as grandparents, elder brother and younger brother, the other expressions are "ah, hum, eh, eh, hum", which is very anxious. Later, I changed it all at once, and it was quite fast, without any delay in going to school.
The grandmother of another child I know. Her nephew is the same age as my grandson. She is also on her birthday and can eat. She is half a head taller than our child. It is not how good food is, but more. .
The grandmother said that her nephew’s illness is almost always due to eating too much. I said, won't you let him eat less?
She said, let him cry if he eats less, saying that he is hungry and panic.
However, the child eats a lot, has a lot of activity, has firm flesh, and is not fat, which is normal.
He is in the same class as my grandson. My child eats three buns for a meal, but my child only eats one. He eats six ham sausages at one meal. My child still eats one, and eats a lot less than others. How can you grow fast?
His child doesn't like to eat fruits and often has constipation. Our children don't have this situation. They don't drink much water or eat much fruits, but all aspects are quite normal.
The most troublesome thing about eating is the problem of eating. I listen to the teacher everything at school. I eat and sleep normally. But when I get home, I become disobedient. I don’t take a nap or eat. I just love watching TV. Love playing with toys.
Seeing that the children educated by others eat well, sleep well, and study well, I feel that I am a failure and a failed grandmother.
But then again,The child is not entirely under my control, even if I want to manage it according to my own ideas, it is not appropriate. The child’s mother has her own way of education, and I have too much control over it. Wouldn’t it be contradictory to control the child’s mother-in-law? In order to control the children's eating, drinking, Lazard and learning, are there few conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? I also don't want to follow in the footsteps of others, thankless things, who wants to do it?
When an elderly person is at his son's house, don't put yourself in the position of the owner, so that others will be unhappy and may be suspected of seizing other people's territory.
My main task is to help them with housework and take care of their children. The main thing is not to bump into each other, not to cry and make a lot of noise. This task is quite arduous.
As for other things, you can do as much as possible, and you can't do it and don't force yourself.
Children’s learning and education issues should be mainly managed by their parents.
After hearing these words, don’t put me on the big hat of not loving grandchildren. The main reason is that we are an intergenerational education and young people do not agree with our old routines. And lack of power.
Nowadays, many children of the same age have enrolled in extracurricular tutoring classes. They spend a lot of money, and they are not useless. Where the money is used, there is a sense of accomplishment.
It’s not impossible to enroll in classes. As long as you don’t over enroll, it is still very beneficial within the child’s capacity.
Children from the age of one to seven are at the best time of acceptance. They miss the best time and will regret it for life.
The grandma I mentioned above is a very successful and fulfilling grandma.Under her care, the child went from weak to strong, which made her full of pride.
I don't need to ask, their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must have a very good relationship. From her speech and demeanor, we can see the good looks.
On the other hand, who doesn't want to be a confident grandma? However, how many mother-in-laws are lucky enough to meet their own daughter-in-law?
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