Qijia Family Education: Pay attention to children's emotional world.
emotions have a dynamic effect on a person's behavior and activities. Positive emotional experience helps children integrate into the group and feel the joy of living together.
·cherish children's natural and healthy emotions
children's emotions are not completely exposed, sometimes hidden in the heart. We adults sometimes need to understand children's thoughts and their emotional feelings through language communication with children.
Once, a kindergarten teacher and a child in middle class had an exchange on the topic of "I like to be an adult or a child". As a result, 18 children said that they like to be an adult. Their reasons are also diverse, and some want Be a mathematician, scientist, doctor; some want to work and make money; some think that they can go to the interstellar when they grow up, and some children say that they want to be a good father or a good mother when they grow up, and so on. There are 7 children who don’t like to be adults. The reason is that “children can play every day”, “children can sleep more and don’t have to get up early to work”, “children can have a lot of delicious food, parents and grandma love themselves very much. "Wait. Whether children like to be adults or children, whether they want to be scientists or ordinary people when they grow up, they are children’s true, self-heated, healthy thoughts and emotional feelings. We should pay attention, acceptance and respect. All children must be encouraged and praised for their health ideals, otherwise, they will fall into the trap of the "Rosental Effect".
·Guide children to experience and form positive emotions
Every child is eager to love and be loved. This is the psychological needs of each of us, and it is also the starting point and cornerstone of a person’s initial personality formation, and the core is feeling And experience. The daily inadvertent words and deeds of parents will become the basis for children to judge whether they are loved. Therefore, parents should actively respond to their children’s greetings, touch their children’s heads, hug them, and always ask their thoughts with a smile and listen to their complaints. , And respond, always let the child have a positive emotional experience.
Qijia's motto: Although parents now know many new educational concepts through various media platforms, their children's emotional world is so colorful and changeable. So this requires parents to be aware of and respect their children’s unique emotional world, so in daily life, they should not only care about what their children learn, but what they like and dislike; they should not only care about their children’s behavior. For good or bad results, we should care about whether they have a positive willingness to show positive behaviors; we should not only care about whether children have learned certain skills and techniques, but should care about what they appreciate and admire.
