"Your child is very smart, he will learn it, but he is a little bit disinterested."
"He, he is too old in class to let me order. If you don't pay attention, you may not know what you want to go!"
Winter is steadfast and steady, but if you don’t say that he will not do it, he lacks some initiative.” The
parents have heard similar feedback from the teacher more or less. It cannot be said to be mixed, but it also feels better than ideal. Almost.
Children have good self-learning performance, and being a parent who doesn't have to worry about it makes me happy to think about it.
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Absent-minded
Children’s learning problems are almost a headache and headache for every parent.
Parents must first understand this: not every child likes to learn, and many children even hate to learn.
We might as well look at children's learning problems with a more relaxed attitude.
asks the most straightforward question: Do you like to learn when you are studying? Can you get an excellent ranking in the class?
If the answer is no, maybe you can start from yourself to better understand the child's current state.
But being able to understand does not mean giving up or letting go. can let children gain a sense of achievement in learning, or let them understand the consequences of not learning in today's society.
When a child gains a sense of accomplishment in learning, and has a sense of fear that if he does not study well, he may encounter many obstacles in the future, perhaps his attitude towards learning will be more serious.
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Inattention
For adolescent children, parents are responsible for adjusting the state of the child, and the child is responsible for getting the results of learning.
The best state of learning is calm and slightly joyful. Therefore, parents should pay more attention to their children's learning state and emotions in their children's usual learning.
Don't just label your children. When helping children adjust their status, they can quietly record their growth and give feedback on their growth in time.
Adolescent children have rapid physical and mental development, so it is necessary to ensure enough exercise to adjust the state through exercise.
can "quiet" only when the "movement" is sufficient. Children may not want to exercise themselves, parents can show weakness and invite their children to stay with their parents for a period of time. How can
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improve the initiative
can improve children's learning interest, learning initiative? This is a problem that many parents are confused about.
Interest is the best teacher, but interest also needs to be cultivated.
For example, for the interest of reading, we should provide children with a good reading environment; starting from the parents reading by themselves, setting an example for the children, and integrating reading throughout life.
We must promptly encourage children's learning initiative, so that children can feel the joy and achievement of active learning.
The interest in learning not only exists in the homework test, but also can be generated from many other aspects, including the game, which may also generate learning motivation and interest. Both the children and the parents themselves should have a wide range of interests.
