Hope Art, Hope Say-Education｜Art｜Life｜Children
Parents educate their children to prescribe the right medicine, the premise is to understand their children.
This must require children to show their true self in front of their parents and release real information to their parents. To do all this, it is necessary for to be educated and have good communication with educators .
The basis of good communication and communication is mutual trust and equality, and Chinese education often lacks these two things.
trust
inadequate mutual trust : is a common phenomenon in life, is that if children are bullied or feel afraid, they will ask their parents for help, , but when the parents tell their children to tell their hearts, children will resist and refuse.
If a child is bullied or feels afraid, he will ask his parents for help. is that the child knows that he can get a sense of security from his parents.
When parents tell their children to say what they want, the children will resist or refuse, this means that the children know that if they want to say what they want, may not be recognized.
So the core of trust is security and identification, and most parents can only do the former.
The sense of security is essentially produced by identification, because the relationship between you is very close, you feel that the other person is very safe for you.
Another sense of security is produced by the existence of utility identification. Z4z provides you with a safe environment because the other party has the ability to deal with danger. Z4z means that the surrounding environment is safe.
equality
often hear some people say that uses an equal way to educate children, results in children with no respect to their parents.
This is actually caused by many people's misunderstanding of equality. If parents are not respected by their children, how can say that parents and children are equal?
This is obviously the first class of the children!
So what is equality?
We often say that all people are equal. The equality of may be "equality of personality." The interpretation of equality of all people as equality of rights is the biggest misunderstanding of equality.
equal rights is to obtain the same and equal amount of power and benefits, , but there is nothing in this world for nothing, , therefore, a person’s power and benefits cannot be equal to others.
And in the family, the equality between family members does not need to involve legal status and political rights, so the equality in family is naturally only the equality of personality. When parents raise their children, needs to be respected in all aspects. At the same time, the child should try to take responsibility and obligation and have personal rights, and then talk about him as a child, he needs some special treatment. With equality and trust,
allows children to open more personal boundaries to their parents. When opens up to their parents, and many parents’ education is defeated on this premise.
hopes art education:
the correct relationship between parents and children should be close, equal, and independent, is that the boundary between each other is very open, and will not feel uncomfortable due to separation from each other.
Children’s art education allows children to improve their artistic literacy, cultivate good learning habits, cultivate children’s independent, kind and friendly character and qualities, give children a chance to confide in their hearts, and give parents a chance to understand their children.
