"Alice in Wonderland" has always been one of the children's favorite fairy tales. Many vivid characters are portrayed in the story, such as the bunny in the blue vest, the invisible Cheshire cat, the Mad Hatter, and Domineering The domineering queen of hearts and the gentle and elegant white queen brought joy to many children and inspired their innocence and imagination. The most impressive ones in the
story are Alice, the Red and White Queen, and the Mad Hatter. They have different growth experiences.
Queen of Hearts vs. White Queen
The Queen of Hearts is arbitrary, not only domineering, but also squeezes the servants and people around him. She likes to warm her feet with pigs, birds as golf clubs, and hedgehogs as golf balls, not only imprisoning the Hatter family. , And ate the maid’s carrot nose as a snack.
The white queen is gentle and elegant, loved by everyone, beautiful and noble, white hair is like snow, the animals in the fairyland love her and are willing to be loyal to her. Why is
as sisters, but the gap is so big? In fact, in the second "Adventure in the Mirror", we saw their childhood stories through time. When
was a child, the sister White Queen stole the fruit tower and lied that she didn't eat it by herself. This caused her mother to blame her sister, the Queen of Hearts. The sad sister ran out of the house and encountered an accident. When the throne was granted, the crown was broken because of the big head of the sister, so the parents gave the throne to her sister, and the angry queen of hearts ruled the fairyland with violence, and was not at the same time as her sister. The choice of parents and the character of the child
is the same as a life without a perfect life. Due to the non-selectivity of the original family, in fact, everyone has their own defects in their personality and behavior. However, in the process of completing the life torch relay, if you can understand your parenting mode in time, as well as the impact on your child's personality and attachment mode, you will restrain your bad personality to the greatest extent and avoid passing it on to the next generation. .
The following is a psychologist Hendrix based on the child's cognitive development stage (infant to adolescence), summarized the parenting patterns of children at different stages, how the child feels, and what response patterns the child will develop, and even the relationship between personality patterns .
As parents, we may find the causes of problems in family education from our own growth. It may be the way we express emotions when we get along with our partners, or the positive or negative information we have received from our parents since we were young. In fact, if both parties can integrate their past and reflect on the thinking and behavior in the current relationship, then it will be easy to find an optimal parenting model for their children.
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