The baby's tears flowed into a straight line. When he looked at his mother, his mother was already full of tears.
is said to be a mother, but after giving birth, he becomes more sensitive and crying.
Before becoming a mother, I felt more afraid and uneasy about the pregnancy and childbirth process. This uneasy is uneasy that I don’t understand all strange things.
The baby is in his stomach, worried about whether he can develop healthily every day. He is about to be born and has to endure the ultimate pain to welcome him to this world.
I originally thought that everything would become easier after the baby came out, but it turned out to be like going to the West to obtain the scriptures.
The first difficulty is breastfeeding.
In order to ensure that the baby has enough food, the baby must be breastfeeded within a few hours after birth. Even if it doesn't, let him suck it all the time.
endured the discomfort in the body and allowed the baby to hold his nipples in the most comfortable position. Even if the blade may hurt, you should be patient.
In order to insist on breastfeeding, even if it was just two days of caesarean section, I had to force myself to suck my baby a few more times every night.
You will slowly discover that you are becoming more and more thirsty and more likely to be hungry. Even if you drink more water, your urine will become less and less.
Even so, you will feel happy when you watch your child sucking breasts in his arms satisfiedly and sleeping with satisfaction.
However, this difficulty did not end. After being discharged from the hospital, the baby's sucking ability becomes stronger and the amount of milk increases, and your nipples will become more and more painful.
I almost gave up breast milk for this. After sucking it, it heals, and continues to suck it and continues to heal. Mothers who have experienced this should be able to understand the piercing pain.
My mother said, let me hold back this pain, no one is easy to be a mother, eating breast milk is better for the baby.
I just persisted, and I gradually got used to feeding my baby with light food and various soups every day.
The second difficulty in breastfeeding mothers’ privacy is not guaranteed.
"Breasts are private parts of women. Unless they have to be absolutely necessary, no one wants to be exposed to the public. They are embarrassed by themselves and make others embarrassed."
Every time they feed, there are always people watching next to them, "Is there enough milk?" "The milk is too urgent, you have to hold it with two fingers", "Your nipples are just right, and the baby is just holding it in your mouth."
know that everyone is kind, but please leave some personal privacy for breastfeeding mothers.
After becoming a mother, am I not a woman or a thoughtful person? I am not a raw animal, nor a feeding tool. I need everyone to watch and educate me on how to feed my baby.
Even if you have made enough psychological preparations before giving birth to your baby, it is still very uncomfortable to reach this point.
The third difficulty in escalating milk is blocked, and there is no personal freedom.
Being a mother for the first time, you don’t know that you will have a fever due to blocking milk. If you block it, you will doubt your life.
Many mothers thought at first that everything would be fine if the baby was full, but what you didn’t expect was that the baby had too little appetite and he might not be able to eat so much. After blocking
a few times, you will become more experienced.
has been fed since then, and has never slept for a whole night, and has seen all the moments of the night.
rejected many invitations from friends because you don’t know when your baby will wake up and have to ask your mother to have breastfeeding, and going out for a meal and watching a movie is a luxury.
These are all because you have become a breast milk mother, so you have to learn to bear it yourself and digest it slowly by yourself.
The fourth difficulty is, body anxiety, and fear of going to work.
looked at myself in the mirror, with a pale complexion, a lot of spots, heavy dark circles, a loose big belly, a loose breastfeeding jacket , I smiled at first, but I cried as I looked at it.
was once a beauty-loving girl. She once dreamed of walking around the world with her sword, but now she has become the one she dislikes the most.
The maternity leave ends soon and you are about to re-enter the workplace. Everything seems to be out of your control, and you will feel panic inside.
I thought about resigning and taking care of my children at home, but the burden of life does not allow it. Mortgage and car loans, and my parents are getting older.
Resign now, and everything accumulated after graduation is gone. Will the baby re-enter the workplace and compete with the post-00s generation?
Everyone says that the post-90s generation is a generation with a striking personality. When it comes to that, it is because the post-90s generation has not gotten married and had children.
As a breast milk mother, going to work means carrying milk. In this small third-tier city, very few companies have maternal and child rooms.
This means that you may have to hide in the toilet and feed your milk during work and endure the pain of milk growth every day. It may affect work, and colleagues may have strange visions.
Everything about it could no longer be held back, and the instant grievance and dissatisfaction burst out all at once.
Mother and son are in love, and when you see your mother cry, the baby will feel uneasy.
While encouraging childbirth, should we encourage companies to set up maternal and child rooms? It may be only ten square meters, which also alleviates the anxiety of breastfeeding mothers.
is written at the end. Now the baby is almost four months old. Although breast milk is hard, I don’t regret insisting on breastfeeding the baby. This may be the closest time between you and your baby. Seeing him satisfied in your arms, you will feel that everything is worth it.
In addition, it is recommended that those dads give their mothers more patience and company, they will give far more than you.
