Seeing this topic, there are really too many people who have encountered such parents! I believe everyone has had such experiences. Whether it is on high-speed rail, bus, subway car, or other public places, noisy children will not be quiet no matter how they persuade them, and parents who are indifferent to looking at their phones and not caring about them. Even Some parents will in turn accuse the persuaders of their persuasion who think they have no empathy and do not understand the hard work of parents. , and think that it is natural for children to make noise. So , as parents of such children, do they have no responsibility?
Recently, another short video has become a hot topic on the Internet. On a high-speed rail, a 3-year-old child has been making noise in the carriage. A passenger could no longer bear it and reminded the child's parents. He did not expect that he was insulted by the child's parents and said, "You are really sick, don't have children in this life." He claimed that he couldn't control it, come and take care of it! I can't control my child anymore, I can't control him! What’s funny is that the child’s father actually questioned the passengers if she had never done a high-speed train to take care of her children? Even the passengers around him were very stubborn, "I forgive you!" and were angry by the parents and asked the parents to apologize. The matter of was finally settled with the crew's mediation.
Children are active by nature and are curious about new things. This is the nature of children . It is understandable. Everyone's childhood is like this. Here we are not discussing the nature of children, but as parents, so those who are confident that children should make noise in the carriage and those who take the high-speed rail should be disturbed by these naughty children by default. In fact, what are there uncontrollable children? Parents with free thoughts and uncontrollable parents. Only such irresponsible parents can educate such uncontrollable children. As parents, they should correct their attitude and guide their children correctly, rather than blame and insult others.
Controversy and even conflicts caused by children's quarrels are widely present in various public places, and many people suffer deeply. However, we must say that it is not these really uncontrollable children, but The parents behind these children. These parents are the most worthy of criticism. As parents, they have the responsibility of education and guidance. When their children make noises, they should not blame others, nor should they simply and roughly beat and scold them. Instead, they should divert their attention in a timely manner. Parents can divert their attention and soothe their emotions through intensive and continuous topics.
In fact, whether it is the parents of naughty children or others who are disturbed, they know that these children are uncontrollable because parents do not educate their children well. Otherwise, in the small parcels to watch movies, why are so many children quiet? As an expert said, behind the naughty children is more of the bear parents. Parents’ words and deeds will definitely directly affect their children. If parents are friendly and reasonable, the children will naturally see it and remember it in their hearts. So, as a parent, you should reflect on whether you have quality!
