When children start to go to kindergarten, some inexperienced parents will probably handle everything carefully in most cases. However, because of such meticulousness, it is also very likely that care will lead to many oolongs, which is ridiculous.
After all, parents and kindergarten teachers have different educational concepts. This is how differences arise, which also leads to many misunderstandings. Once the misunderstandings are resolved, don't be too embarrassed.
"The school asked me to pay for fleas." Parents couldn't accept it. When they questioned , the kindergarten teacher was "slapped in the face"! The reason why
makes a joke is actually mostly because of the middleman - a cute baby who is still ignorant in kindergarten. When the baby comes home and tells the parents about the school teacher's requirements, the parents are confused and naturally have a lot of doubts.
For example, there was a baby who asked the teacher to bring him a small house. Obviously the teacher wanted the parents to accompany the baby to do crafts, but the parents did not understand the student's request and found it troublesome, so they went to a shroud shop and bought a house like this. Taking something like this to a kindergarten would probably shock the teacher.
Another parent said that after his child came home, the teacher asked him to make a dragonfly using bamboo . Who can make this? Of course, felt like my head was spinning, and I even had the urge to buy one. But fortunately, the parent was smart enough to go to the parent group and ask, and it turned out that the teacher wanted , bamboo dragonfly, and , which made things much easier.
Apparently, children who are still in kindergarten can easily explain to their parents what the teacher wants according to their own understanding. is like this cute baby. He said: "The school asked me to pay for fleas." The parents were stunned when they heard this. Accept it and begin to question the teacher's purpose.
However, when parents questioned the kindergarten teacher, they were "slapped in the face". Because the teacher said that the kindergarten was going to hold a flea market, and it was enough for the children to bring a few for one yuan and understand the meaning of buying and selling. I didn't expect that the parents misunderstood it. Really It's so embarrassing.
There is also a kindergarten that allows students to collect candy wrappers , presumably for crafts. The parents who cooperated bought more than a dozen kinds of candies and ate them in line with the principle of not wasting. In the end, they couldn't eat anymore and asked their neighbors to eat together. As a result, the whole family lost their teeth. It hurts, it really makes me laugh or cry.
It can be said that handicrafts are one of the most important courses in kindergarten. Students can use their hands and brains, and they can spend more time with their parents. However, parents are really struggling. It is really just for cuteness. The baby tried her best.
But just like the parent who questioned the teacher because of buying fleas, if it is so easy to have conflicts with the teacher, it is actually not good for the teacher and the students. Therefore, parents should not be motivated and should find ways to resolve possible conflicts. contradiction.
Parents are prone to conflicts with teachers due to misunderstandings due to their "eager love for their children". How should they be resolved?
Parents’ starting point must be good, and they are all for the sake of students. No one wants to let students start to suffer when they start kindergarten. Raising questions when necessary can better protect students, so it is possible to have conflicts with teachers. possible.
However, in fact, very impulsive kindergarten teachers are now rare. Most teachers have undergone strict training and training, so they will have a certain way when educating children. If the parents are really impulsive and have a quarrel with the kindergarten teacher , it is best to take the initiative to resolve it.
It is not wise to give gifts, because if there is a conflict, people will not dare to accept them, and they may think that the parents may have done it on purpose. This can be used as evidence for future reports, so be sure to communicate in person, even over the Internet. Typing does not have such a good solution.
In fact, this is a very basic thing, but some parents just don't take it into consideration. There are also some things that need to be paid attention to after entering kindergarten. Parents need to know in advance.
The "secrets" you need to know when going to kindergarten, smart parents have already tacitly acknowledged it
If parents feel that Wan'er has been wronged, there is no need to inform the principal in advance, because the principal will stand on the side of the teacher, and if not If the kindergarten teacher makes a mistake, the parents will be embarrassed.
Therefore, you must contact the kindergarten teacher. If the communication is ineffective, go to his superior to solve the problem. Do not believe everything the child reports. Pay attention and collect evidence to ensure that the kindergarten has a good educational environment. Peace of mind.
Private kindergartens are not necessarily bad. On the contrary, they may be more sophisticated and have younger teachers. Therefore, parents should listen to their children’s opinions when choosing. The kindergarten they like is the most suitable kindergarten for them.
The author's message: In fact, every novice parent may have a period of confusion. Students enter a new stage, and parents are also worried. But everything is difficult at the beginning. After slowly getting used to the process, they will not feel that cultivation It will be difficult for the next generation, so just treat the setbacks you have experienced as valuable experiences, and use this valuable experience to create a better educational environment for students!
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