"Chinese people are very reserved and not good at expressing their emotions. Especially the older generation, their love for the younger generation is very subtle and silent, and they basically cannot express I love you through words."
Putting love in your heart is not bad, but sometimes it will lead to bad things happening. I believe that when you go through puberty, you will have more or less physical troubles. Take a boy as an example. If he fails to receive effective guidance and establish correct views when he has a nocturnal emission for the first time, this will affect the future to some extent.
What I’m talking about today is not boys’ puberty, but girls’ puberty. Compared to boys, girls are more shy. Especially when puberty arrives, many girls are unable to correctly treat their body changes due to physical development. Today I will talk to you about the changes in girls’ breasts during puberty and how to choose the right underwear!
Before I talk about choosing the right underwear, let me share a story with you. A very good friend A once complained to me that her breasts started to develop slowly after she entered the first grade of junior high school. From A to C, some girls cannot achieve it in their lifetime, but it only took her one year. Breasts grow so fast, which causes huge trouble.
The first trouble comes from the "jealousy" of the girls around me. In the class at that time, friend A's breasts led the way, which aroused discussion among many girls. No matter what age you are, girls’ discussions can cause huge harm to the people being discussed. Throughout junior high school, except for chatting with two or three people, Friend A basically failed to integrate into the circle of girls. Although after the third grade of junior high school, many girls' bodies have already developed.
The second worry is the eyes of the opposite sex. There are two kinds of eyes here: the first is the way men look at the opposite sex, which is very fatal to adolescent boys. It is precisely because of this that Friend A has a good relationship with the opposite sex. At least throughout junior high school, there were more than five boys who confessed their love to her.
The second type is the bad perception of the opposite sex. Anyone who has read knows that in every class, there will be people who are particularly mean-spirited and mean. Friend A was rumored to have a boyfriend just because her breasts were well developed. It was all because of her boyfriend. Or someone might be covering her outside of school, and she would go outside every holiday. It started out as a joke, but as more and more people made the joke and the time went on, the joke would be taken seriously by some people, causing a huge blow to Friend A. For a while, friend A almost dropped out of school because of depression.
The "jokes" of the opposite sex and girls of the same age have caused great trouble to Friend A. It’s not that Friend A has never confided in his parents, but going back to the beginning, parents of the older generation are more reserved and not good at expressing their feelings. This led to Friend A finally summoning up the courage to talk about the troubles caused by breast growth, but was dismissed with "I know".
Friend A’s entire junior high school was unhappy because of her breast development. In order to integrate herself into the circle of girls, friend A even restrained her breasts. When I go shopping for underwear, I know I can buy underwear that fits me well, but I still buy a size much smaller. The unreasonable use of underwear has successfully caused friend A’s bear to droop, deform and become soft. Recalling his own adolescence, Friend A was basically in pain, and all of this was because parents did not pay enough attention to the physical development of girls and the troubles it caused.
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The first stage of breast development
The first stage of breast development is when a girl is 8-11 years old. A girl’s breasts will change. The nipples will begin to protrude, the areola will expand, and small dots can be seen on the chest even when wearing clothes. , it will also hurt if it rubs against clothes. At this time, parents should pay attention and buy suitable vests for their children.
A suitable vest can not only avoid the discomfort caused by your child's physical development, but also save your child from unnecessary worries caused by growth.The most important thing is that you should establish physiological common sense for your children at this time, so that your children can face their own physiological changes.
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The second stage of breast development
At the age of 12-15, a girl’s breasts undergo the second stage of development. At this time, the breasts begin to swell, and hard lumps can be felt. The outline of the lower part of the breasts begins to form. When running, the breasts will pain. The stage happens to be when elementary school enters junior high school. It is also the stage when boys are most naughty and become "curious" about the opposite sex.
At this stage, as a parent, you must also pay attention. When choosing underwear and vests, you should consider leaving room for the development of the breasts to provide enough room for breast growth. At the same time, you must also consider how to reduce the pain caused by collisions.
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The third stage of breast development
16 to 18 years old is the stage where most girls’ breast development gradually matures. At this time, most girls' breasts are what they are born with. Of course, there are also some girls who achieve the size they want through acquired efforts. At this time, as parents, give your children enough space and stop interfering too much with their privacy. The final suggestion is that as a mother, you should pay attention to your children, teach them the physiological knowledge they should have, and establish a correct perspective.
