I have been used as a money-making tool by my mother since I was 14 years old. One dance cost 80 yuan, and I danced up to 23 dances in one day.
Narration: Xiao Wu
Organized by: Mr. Xiao Han
Pictures: From the Internet, infringed and deleted
I am Xiao Wu , 23 years old this year, just two years after graduating from college, from Xiangyang, Hubei. As an ordinary post-90s generation, I am respected by everyone because of my professionalism. But who would have thought that after studying dance for 20 years, I don’t like this industry at all. And I have been able to persist for so many years only because of my mother. .
grew up in a single-parent family. My father passed away early, and my mother did not remarry because of me. Even though she had lived with a man for more than ten years, my mother always felt that getting married was very stressful for her. After all, I was her drag. Aquarius, you may not have such a peaceful life after getting married.
I started learning dance when I was less than 3 years old. Originally, my mother wanted to cultivate my temperament, but later, my mercenary mother changed her personality and regarded me as a tool to make money. All this started when I was 14 years old. That year, my mother lost money in her business, and she was often chased by creditors for money. They even poured paint on the door of our house, which made my mother and I’s daily lives very tense. At this time, even though there was a stepfather who had not married, he did not No helping hand was offered. Through my profession, I earned up to 1,840 yuan for my mother in one day. I was so tired that my urine was blood red that day.
And I also understand that it is not easy for my mother, and I have been trying every means to reduce the burden on my mother. It seems that this has become a habit.
In 1999, I was born in an ordinary family in Xiangyang City, Hubei Province. When my mother was working, she met my father, who was officially registered. In order to marry into a big city, my mother worked hard and spent almost every month's salary on shopping. New clothes, but very frugal on food, not even one-sixth of the salary.
Fortunately, my mother finally married my father as she wished, and they later formed a happy family. But who can guarantee that they will be happy forever? In the end, my father died in a car accident during a business trip, and I was less than two years old at the time. My mother felt that the sky was falling.
But looking at me in her arms, my mother finally came through with strength.
Since my father passed away, my grandparents' attitude towards my mother has also changed. According to my mother, "Your grandfather dislikes you for being a girl and has abandoned us a long time ago. Giving us this living expenses is just to pity our mother and daughter. From now on, I want to do business to make a lot of money so that you can live a good life. "
Yes, my mother is very hardworking. She is in her twenties, has a lot of experience, and is very smart. She has opened a clothing store and a restaurant. Later, she opened a clothing store and a restaurant. I also invested in real estate, but I was a woman after all, and it failed in the end.
My grandparents often traveled to avoid us. My grandparents felt that I was a burden, so they chose to ignore me.
I have been very smart and sensible since I was a child. I know that the smiles on my mother’s face are all fake. Although my stepfather is good to my mother, he has no money. For a long time, my mother even raised him who is 9 years older than her. Men, sometimes my stepfather would bring his son to live with us. He didn’t understand at the time and would play and fool around with the so-called “brother.” Looking back now, I feel sick.
My mother always told me to keep studying and not to be gossiped about by others. I had no choice. What my mother said was right in my heart. But what happened when I was 14 years old was really unacceptable to me. After all, I was in junior high school, and I couldn’t accept it. Be sensible. At that time, my mother told me that she would no longer be able to buy me beautiful dresses because her business failed, she owed more than 6 million yuan in foreign debt, and even sold our only house. Neither is enough.
At that time, my mother often let me perform on stage through connections. At first, I didn’t know that I would make money. Later, I saw the rewards my mother gave me, and my neighbors praised me and said, "Xiao Wu is really capable. He learned to make money at such a young age. Yes, this dance is worth learning."
After that, I had to participate in many dance performances on weekends or during winter and summer vacations. My mother even opened a performing arts company for this purpose, and I was the main person in this company.
I don’t know how long it took. , my mother’s face has become radiant, and her career has improved to a higher level. Her unyielding spirit always exudes a strong aura.
My mother is very fashionable and never wrongs herself, even in the most painful times. For a few years, I dressed beautifully every day, but my stepfather was like a follower, my mother's driver and daily life assistant.
I went to college one year earlier than other people of the same age, mainly because I entered school early and I studied. I studied dance, and later I went to an art school. The university campus gave me a sense of ease and youthfulness that I had never experienced before, but my mother’s control over me never stopped.
But as I grew up. Now that I have my own thoughts, she can’t control them. Especially when I was in my fourth year of college, she didn’t even give me tuition and living expenses. However, through these years of experience, I have already mastered the ability to make money. Every week I would go out to work, sometimes in dance performances, sometimes as a dance teacher. In short, in the past few years, I have relied on myself, and my mother seemed to have achieved her goal and would not be very close to me.
But this did not affect my mood, but I felt pretty good.
