Hi! Dear parents, Yixi Yijing will share with you today how to effectively manage your children. First of all, the significance of efficient management is to achieve a normative effect so that children can accept it.
✅ Firm principles - such as drinking Coke. If parents stipulate that their children cannot drink Coke, no exceptions can be made no matter when and where.
✅ Timeliness - that is, immediate action. For example, you can’t go out skateboarding without finishing your homework. But if the child has made a mistake, he must be criticized at that moment instead of preaching to him a few hours later. Usually the child has forgotten about it and then punishing him will make him confused.
✅ Relevance - For example, if a child goes out to skateboard without finishing his homework, and you punish him not to eat ice cream, he may not understand
. Parents should punish him for behaviors related to this incident (such as not being able to skateboard for a week)
✅ Don't hurt the child's self-esteem - it is important for parents to manage their emotions, discuss the matter as it is, respect their children's rights, and allow them to express their opinions and defense, especially When an adolescent child retaliates, the parent can also know the reason why he did it.
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Children also have their own emotions, allowing them to use different ways of expression. Efficient management is based on the two-way relationship between parents and children. Welcome everyone to find more ways to communicate in the comment area!
