Too many parents do not realize that allowing children to have their own exclusive items from an early age and try not to mix them with other people's items is closely related to preventing sexual harassment. The "others" here include parents. The "exclusive items" here include toothbrushes, water glasses, tableware, food, clothing, and even exclusive spaces (your own room), etc.
For example, you must let your children develop an awareness and habit from an early age: under non-special circumstances, the water cup for drinking and gargling can only be used by the child, not others; he/she has his or her own spoon and spoon for eating. Bowls; when children are outside, others cannot drink the drinks they choose through the straw; they cannot use things that others use.
You will not eat what others have eaten; and you will not mix clothes or shoes with others; you will have your own space at home for personal belongings; no one else, including your parents, can enter your own room without your permission; if When you are in the room, parents need to knock on the door to enter...
Note that cultivating children's sense of boundaries does not mean that parents should be neurotic and overly sensitive, and even caressing and kissing their children's faces may be inappropriate.
You must know that gentle treatment and caress from familiar caregivers and relatives can greatly enhance a child's sense of security, so that he will not lack love from an early age.
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