There is a comment online: Can a person’s heart be cured by time?
is a pity, the answer is no.
" Talk about Talk " debater Jiang Sida , he is unique, and no one sees that he has been unhappy since he was a child. In his impression, it is difficult to find warm memories of the family. His parents always quarrel, and they quarrel inexplicably. Other people's houses are late and lively, while their homes are deserted and parting in a bad mood.
In childhood, there was no adult love enough, but you had to tell yourself to be a sensible adult. You will think every day, whether the adult is happy or unhappy now, whether you avoid it or something else, but you have no choice but to be sensible.
So it is difficult to trust others, or to trust others completely, no matter how close the other person is. Even in a close relationship, you still have to feel that you have to rely on yourself. It is difficult to relax and rely on others.
so it's very painful.
In fact, isn’t this the same thing for people. When they were young, they could rely on others unconditionally and believe in others. Now that they have grown up, they don’t have the person who believes in dependence 100%.
Some people have fulfilled their childhood ideals, but now they are really ideals in childhood.
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