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01, Volume Start
The relationship between people will not remain unchanged over the years.
In this world, it is difficult to have eternal friends and eternal companions.
Sometimes, people get along with each other, perhaps because of a word or a thing, two people will stand on opposite sides and regard each other as enemies.
Bai Juyi said: "It is difficult to walk, not in the water, not in the mountains, but in the repeated reciprocity of human feelings."
In this world, sometimes when you interact with others with sincerity, you are always disappointed. There will always be people around you who use you, hurt you, often hit you, and mock you.
people's hearts are the hardest to see through and the hardest to understand. There is no need to keep pestering people you don’t like.
The most ruthless revenge on a person is these ten words, and it will be very relieved if you do it.
02. Ignore him
On the road of life, don’t pay attention to those who look down on you and hurt you.
"Strength" writes: "Everyone has a magnetic field around you. The magnetic field follows you no matter where you are, and your magnetic field also attracts people and things with the same magnetic field."
If you hate someone, the best way is to stay away from him.
Because, when two people meet frequently, it will increase the probability of a dispute, so no matter who wins or loses, a lot of time and energy will be wasted.
paths are different, and they don’t plan for each other.
If others have looked down on you and have done things that hurt your self-esteem or interests, and know that there is a problem with his character and cannot be in close contact, you don’t have to have any relationship with him.
One thing, it is a kind of luck to see the nature and character of a low-quality person clearly.
The best response to someone who likes to hit you is not to quarrel with him, but to ignore him. Ignoring it means that you have a strong heart and will not be entangled with it anymore.
no longer has any intersection with him, just be happy and move forward.
Stay away from him, bypass him, and ignore him, not because he is afraid of him, but because he does not want to be influenced by him, disrupt his life rhythm, and lose a good mood for the whole day.
03. Abandon him
As a person, I have hurt you, please keep a distance and gradually get away.
On the road of life, please always remember: you don’t have to be grateful to those who hurt you and teach you how to grow.
There is a sentence in "Disquation and Sali": "It is important to switch from addition life to subtraction life. It is not that the mind changes actions, but that the action brings changes to the mind. It can be said that the desquation and Sali is a kind of moving meditation."
There are too many friends, and the quality will be uneven.
If someone is false to you, it seems that he is talking about feelings with you, but in fact he wants to use you to help him get more benefits. The best way to deal with such people is to alienate.
does not appear in the same place with him, so he will reduce the chance of meeting. If you don’t contact or speak, gradually, this person will fade out of your horizon and will no longer have anything to do with you.
forever, don’t worry about what the other person will say and see you. No matter how he makes a move, he won't take it. He is originally an unnecessary person in his life, and there is no need to touch his emotions for him.
Learning to alienate those who hurt you is the way to truly protect yourself.
After a period of time, you will find that such an annoying person has completely disappeared in your life. Recalling all the past is just a slight ripple in a peaceful life.
04. Strong yourself
When people are in a low place, people who look down on you can always step on you at will. Because, they know that even if they offend you, they don’t have to pay any price.
The weaker a person is, the less anyone will take him seriously.
In this world, there will always be many people who bully you, accuse you at will, blow your heart and hurt your self-esteem. In this case, it is better to be yourself than to retaliate against these people.
When you become excellent enough and strong inside, your life will become richer and richer, and your reputation will be high.
people live for a lifetime, and you will gradually understand a truth: the better you are, no one dares to bully you again.
When you become excellent and others talk to you, you will become cautious. They will respect you, and they will measure them repeatedly when they talk to you, feeling that they can no longer afford to offend you.
The relationship between people is so subtle. What remains unchanged is people, and what changes is their attitude. And all of this is because of your strength.
When others hurt you, try to improve yourself and enhance your abilities in all aspects. Only, when you stand at a higher position, no one dares to look down on you easily. Maybe he will also come to please you with a flattering smile.
Manage yourself well and live a strong self is the best revenge for those who hurt you.
05. Summary
On the road of life, don’t be angry when you meet someone who looks down on you.
The best way to retaliate is these ten words: ignore him, alienate him, and strengthen yourself.
" Caigen Tan " writes: "I must not forget people's kindness, but I must not forget their grudges."
If someone looks down on you, there is no need to argue with him, and at that time, he will find a win or lose, right or wrong.
If two people are not on the same level and on the same position, there is no point in a dispute.
is better off ignoring him and let him go. If he was wrong, he would definitely fall into trouble elsewhere. There is no need to affect your mood and waste your time for his mistakes.
When you meet someone you hate, you must know how to be alienated. Don't date it against your will, and don't be angry about trivial matters.
has no intersection with it, there is no cooperative relationship, and the best state is that it does not interfere with the river.
strives to improve yourself, devote all your energy and time to more important things, make certain achievements, and become an amazing person, so that you can truly conquer those who look down on you and look down on you.
On the road of life, if you want to live with dignity and decent life, you have to rely on yourself to make a sigh.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
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