"Wealth is not capped, and beauty is no limit." People are always worried about gains and losses in the pursuit of them.
When you are richer than others, you will feel happy in an instant; and when you meet someone richer than you, you will fall into a bottomless abyss. It turns out that there are many people with wealth than you.
When you are more beautiful than others, you will feel so happy and your sense of superiority suddenly rises; and when you stand in front of someone taller and more beautiful than you, you sigh that there are too many people as beautiful as flowers, and your mood instantly falls.
Many things are endless. We always think that happiness is difficult. Happiness requires us to be better than others, rich, powerful, beautiful, educated, tall buildings and luxury cars. And when you think so, you will work hard and catch up. But you forgot that you can never surpass the best person because there is no best, only better.
In the eyes of many people, happiness is measured, and they will decide their mood at will according to that standard. But when you meet that standard, you will find that there is a bigger standard waiting for you, and you are still not satisfied and unhappy.
Therefore, for a person, the secret to happiness is always to be content and cherish.
Some people are not as tangled, but they are more likely to be happy. Because he can find the little happiness he has. For example, the family is happy together, the children are obedient, well-behaved, sensible and promising, their bodies are healthy, the neighbors are friendly to him... These are insignificant in the eyes of many people, but they regard them as treasures.
Some people may not have a prosperous appearance, but she has an open-minded and cheerful personality, a graceful figure, a high education, able to write good handwriting, an angelic voice, etc.
In fact, the reason why we are unhappy is because we are not satisfied. What we see is always owned by others, we don’t have, and we can’t see what we own. In this way, you will lose yourself and cannot find your own happiness.
In the past, I always felt that I had no high income, no good face, no high education, no good husband, no good parents-in-law... But now my mentality is "I am great, I can raise two children independently, my eldest daughter is the first in the class, very good; I have a good figure management, I dance well, my husband often listens to me and cares about me very much. He lives a good life, so that I can have money to spend when I am not working; my father-in-law is a teacher, and his salary is high. When he goes into insurance, he can think of me, buy insurance for my eldest daughter, take money to let me learn to drive, and when I go back to my hometown, I also think of two granddaughters; I don't have a mortgage, a car loan, and a debt, I live upstairs and have a better family; I can put on makeup, I can tutor my children's homework, I have an education certificate , and I have a teacher qualification certificate..." When I think all I have. I began to slowly become more confident.
Similarly, if I just want to "My husband is lazy, my husband rarely helps me with housework, my in-laws prefer boys over girls, and they don't help take care of the children; my second daughter makes me worry, my second daughter's height and weight do not meet the standards, I have no income, I live a life with a palm facing down..." Then I will be depressed every day, and I will lose my temper with my children, and my heart is raging, and I will be ignited by something at any time.
Two ideas and two mentalities create two completely different mentalities.
So, if you want your life to be smoother, happier, and happier, then you have to go in the direction of happiness and joy, do what makes you happy, and think about what makes you happy. Not something contrary to the rules.
Happy people are the simplest, just as the book "The Gift of Time" says, "Happy people are never obsessed with anything, and will not devote their lives to the grand project of healing difficult diseases or creating planes; happy people will not leave any legacy, they live just for the sake of living and are pure consumers."
The deeper the desire, the easier it is for people to be unhappy. Unless what you are pursuing is what makes you happy.
People, this life. In just a few decades, why do you have to make yourself unhappy? When we have nothing, have a good mindset. That is also a very good choice. At least we live happier than others, and this kind of happiness is something that many people dream of.
You must remember that while you envy others, there will definitely be someone who envys you. Even if you feel that you have accomplished nothing, you may be a light in the eyes of others. "I am born with a talent that is useful" must have its own reason, but you may not have discovered your own strengths. When you find out, you will definitely become shiny.
Everyone has the value and meaning of existence. If you seek what you have with your heart, you will definitely become happier.
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