Because if you learn from a young age that human nature is inherently good, then when you enter society and come into contact with interests and power struggles, you will find that many events happening around you will subvert your childhood cognition, which will make life very painful! It is also difficult to gain a foothold in this society!
And if you are a person who supports the view that human nature is evil, then you will live a hard and helpless life! Because, you don’t believe that there will be “love” in your life, and what will people who don’t love love?
And what is the best state? ? Even after seeing through the essence of human nature, you will still believe that there are still many beautiful and interesting people and things in the world!
And what you need to know is that a thing, a person's good and bad are all within a specific range value. When it is not at the temptation point of good or bad or trigger point, we should all look at this matter and this person neutrally, and not simply look at it in black and white, good and bad!
is like, do you still remember Aunt Xue in "Deep Love in the Rain"? In addition to having emotional protection for Lu Zhenhua and her children, she looks sarcastic to everyone around her, and then she is extremely powerful! All Lu Zhenghua's deposits are also gone!
However, Yiping 's mother has a submissive personality, and all the struggles are based on Yiping!
. Does many people think that Aunt Xue is a bad person? Yiping's mother is a good person?
However, Jingjun saw another version in another place. A daughter said: If there is a choice, she would rather choose someone like Aunt Xue as her mother, because her mother is like Yiping's mother, neither fighting nor scrambling, and being timid, so she has a hard time!
There are also the "Tangshan Beater Incident" that has caused a lot of controversy before. Some people unilaterally say that the beating people is wrong, and there are also people who condemn the problem of several girls.
In this incident, what if both parties are male? What will the result look like?
If, at that time, one of the girls didn't immediately hit someone with a bottle! What will the result be? Afterwards, will someone unilaterally say which party is right or which party is wrong?
There is also the incident of Wang Baoqiang's wife cheating in the past, many people unilaterally condemning Wang Baoqiang's wife and thinking that she is a bad person! And, if you see through human nature, you will find that it is nothing more than a story similar to the cheating story of Wu Dalang and Pan Jinlian in !
Some people always want to win both wealth and sex, but winning both wealth and sex often brings a lot of disasters to a person, such as the loss of talents, such as the death of Wu Dalang!
So, when many people ask for these things, they should think about whether they have the ability to master the ability of wealth and sex, and they do not just ask for it, because in the end they may be able to get water from a bamboo basket!
so, can we simply say that human nature is inherently good or evil?
can’t, I can only say it! Under certain conditions, it is good and evil!
However, if you give it an opportunity, or a temptation point, it may turn from the "good" in the mouth of the public into "evil"! He also did "good" things from the "evil" mentioned by the public! !
For example, a colleague who has always been kind and loves to help others, because after I went to your house, I found that your family was very rich, and it happened that he needed to use money. At this time, he chose to kidnap you and get money!
For example, Aunt Xue is not powerful and does not fight for her children. With Lu Zhenghua's temperament, is she very likely to be another Yiping's mother?
Another example, in the Tangshan incident, if the girls did not eat or drink outside late at night, or did not meet the men who had drunk the Tangshan beating incident?
For example, Wang Baoqiang did not find a beautiful wife, or did Wang Baoqiang have no other man better than him?
For example, a woman who came home late at night encountered a gangster?
For example, go to Atm to withdraw money at night and encounter robbery? Is
? In this way, many of the simple and good and bad events that we now seem to be inducing are actually an opportunity?
So, what does this mean? It means that you should never take human nature too well. People around you who seem harmless may be the devil who pulls you to hell under an opportunity!
Human nature cannot stand the test most of the time!
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