Live a dissatisfied life but dare not give up, and faces a future with multiple choices but dare not pursue it.
Looking back at the past, he was confused, or achieved nothing or went against his wishes. Only then did he realize that only by stepping out of his comfort zone can he have a more exciting life.
Get out of the ideal comfort zone
"Sun Tzu's Art of War " says:
Find it above and get it; seek it inside and get it below; seek it below and you will lose.
means that if you pursue the best, you can get the medium; if you pursue the medium, you can get the inferior; if you pursue the inferior, you can get nothing.
Only by having lofty ambitions can you achieve something. Don’t change your pursuit in order to make yourself more sociable.
No matter how far away the ideal sounds, don't dare not mention it.
Because people with lofty ideals are more daring to fight and strive, and dare to think about things that others dare not think, and it is easier to succeed.
Never tease your ideals in front of others, what you give for it is life.
Don't give up easily even if it fails. Setbacks are the pains that need to be experienced in a successful life. No one can succeed casually, especially on the road to pursuing lofty ideals.
Because of setbacks, we have accumulated experience, and because of experience, we have formed abilities, which will make us unstoppable.
There is nothing that cannot be done in the world, I am afraid that I will not be determined.
You are only one ideal away from your best self.
Go out of the comfort zone of career
As the saying goes: A soldier who does not want to be a general is not a good soldier.
A strong aspiration to career is often a powerful driving force for success in career.
Because if you don’t have a positive attitude in your career, there will be no positive actions.
Some people always envy others' success, but they are not enterprising, willing to be mediocre, and they are pessimistic when encountering things, thinking that they can't do it, and in the end they comfort themselves that they are ordinary and valuable.
Some people use their great time to "live flat", waste their lives, and constantly brainwash themselves: I choose to "live and win".
doesn’t know that “lying flat” is not advisable, and “winning lying” is impossible. The greedy comfort is destroying yourself step by step.
No matter how big a pancake is, it is not as big as a pancake.
A person’s career achievement is this big pie, and whether it can be baked with a satisfactory "big pie" depends on the "pot" that baked it, that is, the person’s career aspiration.
Many times, it is not because of insufficient ability, but because of lack of career aspirations and insufficient hard work.
A straw, thrown on the ground is garbage, and it can be sold when tied on cabbage, and tied on hairy crabs is the price of hairy crabs.
The more professional aspirants go, the further they go.
out of the comfort zone of learning
" Caigen Tan " says:
1 Not standing taller, like shaking clothes in dust, filling the mud, how can you be far.
If a person's pursuit does not have a height, he cannot stand at a higher level. Just like shaking his clothes in dust and washing his feet in mud and water, how can he be extraordinary?
The goal is too easy to achieve, and it is easy to lose the motivation to learn.
If you want to reach a higher level, you must have higher pursuits in your studies.
When reading, you have the pursuit of learning textbook knowledge well and rank among the top;
When working, you have the pursuit of professional knowledge and become a professional talent;
In your spare time, you have the pursuit of hobbies and play well;
After retirement, you have the pursuit of exploring new fields and becoming a trendsetter in the times.
Xunzi wrote in "Encouraging Learning":
I have thought about it all day long, but it is better to learn in a short time.
If you have time to watch videos, and envy others' lives, it is better to start learning and try higher goals.
The knowledge learned now is the future path.
Source | Philosophy Life Network, Books, People's Forum Network
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