As the saying goes, "The way is simple." A person's life is actually a process of constantly "choose". Only by learning to be free from one’s own way and knowing what is the most important thing can one liberate the mind and go into battle lightly.

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Suffer with a smile, enjoy with a smile, and smile at life.

As the saying goes, "The way is simple."

The key to making a person lies not in what he has gained, but in what he has let go.

This life is actually a process of constantly "choosing" .

Only by learning to leave and knowing what is the most important thing can we free our minds and go into battle lightly.

Really smart people have learned to organize themselves and spend their few time and energy on truly valuable things.

01

Engineering the room, leaving the complicated

There is a question on the Internet: "My life is a mess, how should I change it?"

A one of the commentators answered this way:

"When you are in trouble and have no idea about the life in front of you, go clean the house, start with small things, and start to change."

deeply agrees.

Let's do a set of thought experiments, and one person walks into the following two rooms:

1. walks into a sloppy and messy room
2. walks into a clean and neat room

Scene 1: A person in a good mood walks into room 1 and his mood becomes not very good; when entering room 2, his mood becomes better.

Scene 2: A person in a bad mood will get worse when he walks into room 1; when he walks into room 2, his mood will get a little better, and even sweeps away the haze and gets better.

concluded that: "A clean and neat room will make people feel more comfortable and happy."

Our mood is always unconsciously affected by the current environment, and this impact is often ignored by us, and most of the time we do not know it.

The environment has a huge impact on our thinking and behavior. We will underestimate this power and overemphasize the role of personal will. In fact, the environment shapes people, and people are strongly restricted by the environment. Therefore, to a certain extent, it becomes particularly important to actively transform our surroundings and make the environment we live in more conducive to our innovation and development. It is also a must-do homework for us every day.

An old saying goes: A bright window is clean and a clean table, so you can sit and lie down.

When a person starts to organize his room, what he gets is not only comfortable living, but more about inner satisfaction.

likes this sentence very much:

"Home is a harbor. Only when a clean room can nourish life, the spirit and state will become more and more positive, and the possibility of success will be greater."

On the contrary, those who give up cleaning up their rooms because of laziness will be like a messy room, over time, their lives will be tied to complex things like a messy room.

A truly smart person will always take some time to organize his room, so that his life can be simple and pure.

02

scheduling emotions and complaining

Writer Liu Na once said this:

"Emotion is a gun. When we pull the trigger of our emotions, the gun is actually aimed at ourselves."

People's emotions are like clouds in the sky, unpredictable. If we cannot adjust in time, we will fall into a deep abyss, leaving life out of control and becoming emotional puppets.

has seen this story:

In the morning, Li Qiang had just gotten up to wash up and accidentally put his watch on the sink. After seeing it, his wife took the watch to the TV cabinet and put it on.

htmlWhen my 34-year-old son saw it, he walked over and took it to play with it. As he played, he threw his watch out.

Along with the sound of the watch smashing the ground, it attracted Li Qiang's attention. Seeing his beloved watch falling to the ground, Li Qiang angrily taught his son a lesson and blamed his wife for taking the watch.

The wife explained that she was afraid of water entering the watch, but Li Qiang said that the watch was waterproof, so the two had a big fight because of it.

Li Qiang angrily threw the door and went out to work. When he arrived downstairs of the company, he suddenly remembered that he forgot to take the office bag and returned home immediately.

But there was no one at home, and the key was placed in the office bag again. He had no choice but to call his wife.

When my wife hurried home to deliver the keys, she accidentally knocked over a breakfast shop on the way and had to pay a sum of money before leaving.

Later, Li Qiang finally got his office bag, but he was half an hour late for work. Not only was he criticized by his leader, but his wife also lost money for it and was deducted for his full attendance award because of his lateness.

There is a saying in psychology: 10% of life is composed of things that happen to you, and the other 90% is determined by your reaction to these things. The beginning of the story of

is an accident that cannot be controlled by human resources, but 90% of the subsequent encounters are actually caused by emotional out of control.

In this world, no one has no worries in life.

Everyone will definitely feel emotionally lost. Fools will only complain blindly, while wise people know how to adjust themselves.

Suppose you have 86,400 yuan and lose 400 yuan, will you throw away the remaining 86,000 yuan together? Of course not.

So, there are 86400 seconds a day, why do you make the remaining 86000 seconds unhappy because of 400 seconds of bad mood?

The best state is: suffer with a smile, enjoy with a smile, and face life with a smile, this is life.

When we learn to accept emotions, organize emotions, and face life with a positive attitude, you will find that beauty comes as promised.

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