After chatting with friends for a long time, I feel that we are really too anxious in this era and are too good at putting pressure on ourselves.
A few days ago, I went back to my hometown in the countryside. Because I wanted to have a good vacation for myself, I didn’t even take my computer back, so I only took two sets of clothes and went back.
The life of returning home made me feel relaxed. I usually live in the city and feel that it was already night after I didn’t do anything for a day, but I lived in my hometown very fulfilling.
In the morning, I got up and went to my mother's vegetable field to pick two corn for breakfast. After breakfast, I went to help my mother do some work, cultivate soil, fertilize, weed, etc. for the fruit trees at home, and went to my mother's vegetable garden to pick some peppers, vegetables, and cucumbers to make a few side dishes.
Weed my mother's garden in the afternoon and use the cut leaves to make some flower fat.
After dinner, the family sat in the big tree in the yard to enjoy the cool air. There were also children and adults from neighbors who came to visit us. We chatted together and talked and laughed together.
A day passed, and it was fulfilling, and I didn’t think I was wasting my time at all. After all, if I hadn’t written a manuscript a day, I didn’t answer a single advertisement, and I didn’t have a customer, and I would definitely be anxious and insomnia.
But after I got home, I felt different. Such a simple and beautiful life really made me feel like I was in the Peach Blossom Land.
So, can you really have endless happiness if you have a lot of money? Or do you have to have money to be happy?
Just like a friend asked me how to make myself happy, I also asked my mom.
My mother only said to me: live a good present and do whatever you should do every day.
Think about it carefully, it is also correct.
Because I rarely see my mother complaining, I have never seen her complain since I can remember. She will not complain that our family is poor, nor will she complain that my father has no money to buy a house and a car. Instead, she is happy every day, going out to work every day, and when the time comes, she goes home to cook, eat, manage the vegetable garden, etc.
Later I grew up. After going to college, the conditions at home became better. My mother started to tinker with a small garden, planting some flowers and two vines. When the sun shines in summer, the shadows of the vines flutter with the wind, which is very comfortable.
That is a long-lost happiness.
always feels that a person’s life is not about fighting for money, but about working hard for himself and for his own life to be able to live happily.
The happiness that money can bring is very small, and there are many small things that can make us happy.
Writer Emerson said:
A person's greatest contribution to the world is to make himself happy. If you are happier, the world will suffer less disasters.
No matter what life is like, we can only feel it well, love it well, live every day seriously, and fill the so-called gaps in life.
Happiness will come naturally.
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