text/Mibei
Unconsciously, life has passed for decades. After seeing through the warmth and coldness of human feelings and seeing the coldness of the world, we gradually understand: we all want to change this world, but in the end we find that we can only change ourselves.
Have you ever noticed that in life, there are always such people. The more we respect them, the more they feel that we are prone to bullying; the more we give in to them, the more they become more and more eager they become...
We want to treat them with sincerity, thinking that the more they will give back to us, but what we get is a ruthless pour of cold water. We are heart-to-hearted towards them, but they are heartless towards us. Perhaps in their eyes, "true" is worthless.
"When facing these false people, I am not angry, but I know how to control my emotions; I am not without a bottom line, but my bottom line is lower than others."
No one is a fool in life. A real fool is someone who regards others as fools. People who can be bullied by you and those who can be deceived by you are often the ones who are most sincere and caring about you.
Don’t think I’m easy to bully. Many times, it’s just that I don’t want to care. I don’t want to be a human being wearing a mask, nor do I want to have harming scheming in my heart; I just want to live a simple life, I just want to live a peaceful and comfortable life.
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I can give in, but don’t think that I can bully
people, it’s the world. In real society, everyone has to deal with others, and everyone has to mediate through various interpersonal relationships.
In the process of dating with others, I like to treat others with the most sincere heart, because I don’t want to hide my scheming or deceive others, because such a life is really tiring, and I don’t want my life to be full of calculating.
"So, when facing conflicts with others, when you have different opinions from others, as long as there are no serious consequences, I am willing to make a step back. Giving back is not a loss, but a wise choice to make the problem resolved."
I can choose to make concessions, but don't think I am easy to bully. Giving concessions to you is actually giving you a face, giving each other a way out and giving each other a way out.
If you think I am easy to bully because of my concessions and start to get more aggressive towards me, then I will fight back without hesitation.
Born as a human being, everyone should have good thoughts and not think that others are easy to bully. I can give in to you, and I can also be aggressive to you, but I don’t think it’s necessary.
If you are sincere, I will be sincere; if you bully, I will never let you go.
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I can pretend to be stupid, but don’t think I am really stupid
In this world, no one is a fool, and everyone’s heart is actually like a mirror. Many times, it’s not that I don’t want to care about it, but that I just want to preserve a kind thought and stick to a kind heart.
Don’t think that you are the only one who can play tricks, I just don’t want to play with you; don’t think that you are the only one who can plot against others, I just don’t want to play with you. In life, I want to have peace of mind, and I don’t want to let too many troubles in my life.
If you have difficulties, I am willing to extend my helping hand to help you; if you have grievances, I am willing to comfort you with my actions; if you lend money from me, I am willing to lend you emergency use...
"But, don't take my help for granted, and don't ask for it to me. Helping you is affection, not helping you is duty. There is no regulation that anyone must help whom, but I am kind-hearted and willing to help you."
Don't think I'm stupid, you can owe money and not pay it back. Your money is money, and mine is also money, and it is also earned by my own hard work. Only when there is borrowing and repaying can you borrow again; if there is borrowing and repaying but not repaying, it is actually consuming each other's feelings.
No matter when and where, you must be down-to-earth in your life and work. Don’t always think that others are fools, and those who are willing to help you are all noble people in your destiny. Once you hurt them, your luck will no longer exist.
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Sincerely in mind, you are true and I am true and
In life, everyone is a lone hero in the world. It is a very happy thing to be able to find someone who is in harmony with you and support each other, so that you can be accompanied by someone in the process of pursuing your dreams and no longer be lonely.
I like to be simpler when dealing with people. If you are sincere to me, I will treat you sincerely; if you are sincere to me, I will trust you.
"Real friends are actually sincere in exchange for sincerity. I don't have so many colorful intestines, nor do I have so many scheming that harms people. I just want to use the most sincere heart to make my own efforts for this friendship."
For friends, the best relationship is that two people can get along comfortably. I don’t need to question your sincerity, nor do you need to doubt my sincerity. Everyone uses the purest heart to give the most sincere help in each other’s struggle.
In life, you don’t need to have many friends, it’s enough to be sincere. If you and I are sincere, you and I are true.
This article is written to those who think I am easy to bully! May you and I encourage each other.
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