Recently, another bad news came around. A 40-year-old colleague passed away in middle age and fell to the middle age stage, leaving his wife and children to depend on each other for life.
The news that people may not hear the most in middle age is often like this. The life of middle-aged people has never been easy.
Colleagues give people a very good feeling, very talkative, and when others need help, they can often come forward as much as they can.
In the eyes of those around us, if we think that the impression of him is too important, he can often hear his experience when he is in the same office.
is simply a representative of multiple jobs for him. In addition to his job, he also does many part-time jobs in his spare time that others are unwilling to do.
For example, when he gets off work, he even drives Didi at night. Once he said that he took a order at night and drove a long distance of 12 hours.
Until this time he lost all his work due to liver failure and passed away, he never looked like he was struggling again.
Until we have experienced too much pain in our lives, we gradually realized that the greatest soberness for adults is not to overdraw their health and exchange for wealth in life.
Colleagues are the pillar of this family and the backer of this family. Once the backer falls, the whole family will collapse, and leaving it to your loved ones will cause more pain.
There is an old saying among the people that often says: "I worked hard to make money in the first 30 years, and I worked hard to see a doctor in the next 30 years." Sometimes the biggest tragic thing in life is that a disease may cause our entire family to be in debt and return to the pre-liberation overnight.
Sometimes the living expenses earned by relying on physical strength may make our lives somewhat secure in the short term, but once it is overdrawn, it is naturally not worth the loss from a long-term perspective.
Sometimes the biggest disadvantage of human nature is that we only know how to cherish it when we lose it, and we will not regret it until we no longer have it.
When you are lying sick on the hospital bed, or even on the verge of death, you will sincerely feel that no matter how much wealth or money you have, it is like a dream to you.
A friend who had experienced death before said: "A few years ago, I also had acute liver failure. This disease was acute. It took less than two weeks. The top hospital I went to at that time, You'an Hospital was treated conservatively for a whole month. If it really doesn't work, it can't change the liver. Artificial liver blood exchange and rescue. All kinds of advanced foreign medicines were able to survive. I was infected with Aspergillus infection halfway through the way. I used the top antibiotics in the UK. One medicine is 4,000 per drug. If I'm not sick, it's money to save money. When I'm sick, I have to spend half my life savings. Fortunately, I can still be rescued."
people can live safely, have a happy family and good health for a lifetime. Everything is outside the body. Only by experiencing it once can I know what is important.
In life, the amount of wealth accumulated in front of us often does not represent the state of our life, and our life is just like a marathon. Sometimes, what we fight is not the starting point, but what we fight is our own endurance. Whether we can continue to reach the end of our life is the key to life.
If it weren't for the sake of a few taels of silver, who would have been willing to stay away from his hometown? But sometimes we have to understand one thing: when we are young, we have their own shortcomings.
After all, people will not be able to operate quickly and constantly like machines. Even when machines gradually age, life is more like a protracted war. The lasting wisdom of a life is to allow their energy to be continuously output.
In life, choose to overdraw your physical health and obtain wealth in life is the biggest risk. It can even be said that miscalculation is greater than the chance of winning. For yourself, your body cannot bear the disaster of illness and pain, and it is often a joint involvement for your family. A small family itself is a community of shared destiny, prospering and losing.
Perhaps only after experiencing illness can we live more transparently and soberly.
Perhaps the greatest sobering feeling for adults is not to overdraw their health in exchange for wealth in life.
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