No matter how good you are, it is impossible to please everyone in the world.
There are always some people, like cold snow, that will let you fall into the ice hole at any time.
There are always some people who look like spring flowers on the outside, but they have a knife hidden in their hearts, maliciously slandering you with expressions, words, etc.
A truly smart person will turn himself into an hedgehog . Many times, he will erect his own thorns, making people dare not get close to him.
Usually, you can show a well-behaved state, relax yourself, and make your social network feel relaxed.
You must understand that the relationship that can be favored will not last long, and it will even encourage others' arrogance.
I have been in my life for decades and don’t want to be pinched as a soft persimmon. Please remember a few words in "Zengguang Xianwen".
01
Original text: People are poor and do not speak, and they do not have a level.
Translation: If you are at a level, you won’t move. If you are poor, don’t talk.
Why do others take control of you? It’s not that others are particularly powerful, but that you are not powerful at all and have the characteristics of being looked down upon by others, which makes people understand at a glance.
For example, your home looks like a bare wall, so when relatives and friends come to your house, you will know how low your level is. People who like to show off can belittle you at any time and make you feel ashamed of poverty.
If you are very poor and like to show off, anyone with a discerning eye knows what's going on with you, but most people will not refute it. If someone exposes you in person, then you are just asking for trouble.
Be a person like deep water, your heart is as calm as water, and don’t make sounds. If you keep silent, the other party will not know your "straight". Similarly, you can cover up your "weakness" in all aspects, thus forming an unfathomable appearance that makes people dare not hurt you easily.
02
Original text: When you encounter dangerous places on the road, you must avoid it. Don’t offer poems if you are not talented people.
Translation: When encountering dangers and difficulties, you should bypass them and do not fight head-on; if you don’t have enough confidence and confidence, don’t be competitive.
Many people like to show off their strength, even if they are soft persimmons, they pretend to be hard rocks. Doing this for a long time and using this attitude to socialize is undoubtedly "involving yourself in the trap".
In ancient times, a strong man said this: "I can tear off the wings of the cicada and pinch ant . This is the trick to be a strong man."
uses power just right, and then a person becomes the controller of power, thus appearing "Kong Wu is powerful".
You don’t take risks and don’t always be ugly. Then the person who wants to take control of you will weigh yourself and even be in awe of you.
03
Original text: The waves of the Yangtze River push the waves of the past, and the new people in the world drive away the old people.
Translation: Yangtze River The waves of the future push the waves of the future, and newcomers in the world emerge in endlessly.
Things are impermanent. Today's master may be tomorrow's short man. Don’t sigh because of your current weakness, but look at the problem from a developmental perspective.
Treat the days you are being controlled as a life of "being humiliated and burdened", and you will live a happy life. And one day in the future, you can counter it.
For example, in the unit, you are often bullied. Don't rush to resist, but work hard and achieve results. When you are promoted to your boss, the situation turns around.
04
Original text: A tiger can still be approached when it is born, but a person is not as familiar as a friend.
Translation: You can still get close to tigers you have never seen before, but you can't get too close to people you are familiar with.
A soap bubble can show its charm in the sky, but it will be destroyed if it falls to the ground or is caught by someone.
When life is fragile, it is also similar to soap bubbles. You need to learn to protect yourself and find your own living space. Try to contact others as little as possible. Simply put, you are the most comfortable when others are out of reach.
When dating unfamiliar people, they will be afraid of each other, so the other party will not hurt you casually; what we need to be careful of is those who are very familiar with you, because they know you well and have the ability to "know yourself and your enemy and win every battle." If you grasp the two relationships before and after, it will make it difficult for the person who controls you to reach you.
05
Original text: Don’t frown in your life, there should be no incised people in the world.
Translation: Don’t do things that are sorry for others in your life, there will be no one in the world who hates you.
In the allusion of "harmony between generals and ministers", Lian Po thinks he is a military general and has made great contributions. He should just take care of civil servants Lin Xiangru .
In order to protect himself and maintain national stability, Lin Xiangru gave in again and again and again, finding many reasons to not attend court or meet Lian Po.
On the surface, Lin Xiangru is very weak, but in fact he is full of confidence. Everything he did was for the overall situation. Finally, Lian Po put down his airs and accepted Lin Xiangru.
If your life has stains, it is natural to be regarded as a soft persimmon, and you can't "become stronger".
As a person, adhere to kindness, keep the bottom line, and respect the rules. You always have a clear conscience, so when you fight with others, you will have a strong aura and protect yourself.
06
Original text: Be content with your feet, and you will never be humiliated for life; know how to stop, and you will never be ashamed for life.
Translation: Those who are content will always be happy and will never be insulted by money for life. Everything must be controlled and stop at the right time, so that you will never be humiliated in your life.
When someone is beaten, don’t always blame others. Look for the reasons in yourself in everything.
If you have desires, you will have many weaknesses and even be controlled by others everywhere. For example, Heshen during the Qing Dynasty, although he was of high power, he was greedy. Therefore, he often looked trembling in front of Emperor Qianlong . After Qianlong passed away, he wanted to continue to save his wealth, but was taken over by the new emperor and lost everything he had.
desire, just like a lock in the room, and the key was obtained by someone else. If you don't throw it away, you can only accept the fact that you are humiliated.
Being a human being, you will be strong without desires. If you don’t want anything, then others can’t do anything to you and cannot tempt you.
07
07
Life path, you must walk well, not only have the "thorn", but also have the wisdom to grasp the "thorn".
: Kill others casually, which will arouse others' anger; if you are bullied, you dare not take out your own stab, which will make things difficult for you.
The best life is to stay kind, insist on being positive, form your own aura, and make those who are malicious dare not approach.
People are in society and have to deal with people, but you must pay attention to your position and have a certain personality and ability.
The mountains stand on the earth, and the relationships stand on confidence.
Author: Common people eat coarse food.
Follow my text and enter your heart.
The pictures in the article are from the Internet.
