Unknowingly, it’s almost 2023. I don’t know if your New Year’s Eve will be a lively one with everyone gathering together, or if you will be alone. It is said that life requires a sense of ritual, but whether the passion for life is lost in the day after day of life. For many people, tonight is New Year’s Eve, and tomorrow is the first day of 2023. But for most of us, tomorrow is just an ordinary Sunday. I didn't feel happy because of it, and seemed a little lonely.
Some things should not be looked back on, and some people should not be missed. Every day is a holiday for happy people, and holidays are even more difficult for unhappy people.
Maybe your life circle is so big that you can't even imagine it. You have many friends, many relatives and family members who you often contact. This is your life, and you often interact with your best friends and buddies. I think that's because you're younger at heart, or maybe you're just afraid of being alone. There are many opportunities in life. Who do you meet and whom do you miss? Who got in touch with whom, and who was left out in the cold? Who can truly be by your side in the course of your life? Your family, friends, relatives or colleagues. Each of us has our own life circle, and the longest person in your address book is the acquaintance, and lying in the blacklist is the person who can't be forgotten and can't let go.
It's great to be just friends, why bother to be a couple. In the end, even the most basic normal communication was no longer qualified. Ordinary friends, good friends who have known each other for many years, will there be feelings between you? Emotions are a very subtle thing, they grow on their own and are not deliberately designed. Emotions are very fragile. A word, a barrier, the appearance of a third party, or even a trip to the toilet can make your so-called love gone forever.
I miss the old days of being slow and only loving one person in my life, but now I love others more often when I turn around. Perhaps, this is the current rhythm. You can love someone casually and lose your life easily. What is marriage now? You can divorce if you are not in harmony with each other, and you can break up if you feel something is wrong. Many times, in addition to love, we are together because of responsibility. However, how many people will always miss it.
The so-called festival is just for lovers. Valentine's Day, Christmas, Christmas Eve, Chinese Valentine's Day, birthdays, etc. If you are an ordinary person, you are just a person running for life, then will you go out at night, check TikTok, and play games? Lonely people don't care, happy people are in pairs. When festivals come, there is always the romance of happy lovers and the bitterness of being alone.
Review: Have all the cakes you drew come true this year? What gains and emotions have you had this year? What have you lost and gained?
I think this year, the most common thing everyone said to their friends and family is: So-and-so, do you have money, can you lend me some? What I fear most is: Did you make any money this year?
Unknowingly, this is already the third year of the epidemic, especially in the year 2022, when various places have experienced large and small blockades and silence. And how many days can I really go to work? As the pressure on car loans, housing loans and other online loans has doubled, many people have reached the edge of collapse. And those who borrowed money to buy a house without a car also worry about the RV loan all day long.
This year, apart from not going to work due to the lockdown, he was still working on other days, but why was he always living so hard to make ends meet. I don’t know where I spent the money I earned in a month. These three years, especially the last year, have taught most of us that we can't spend money lavishly, because when you need money, you will find that one hundred and one yuan is so precious.
This year, during those days when you were lying down at home, did you feel that you were useless? Every day I just eat, watch videos, and play on my phone. I have no motivation to wake up early or take a part-time job. Living hard also requires fighting spirit, but when you can work but don't have a job, when your savings are gradually used up, will you panic?
In addition to work, people have to do it, and try not to do the rest if they can.Let alone working part-time in self-media, if you were so self-disciplined you wouldn’t have seen this. Those who are self-disciplined have succeeded, but those of us who are free and undisciplined are still sinking in life. If you are not good enough, don't complain about the injustice of fate. If you don't have that strength, don't blame others for not wanting to follow you.
Now, if you think carefully about all this year, how do you feel in your heart? Is it sad or melancholy, sad or worried. Or full of beautiful yearning for the future.
But I guess, for most people. Basically they have done nothing this year. Some people are barely making ends meet, and some people can't even afford a thousand yuan now. There are also people who still owe tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands, or hundreds of thousands.
This year is really difficult, no matter which industry you are in. Even if you are an ordinary person, you will be affected by the epidemic. You are unemployed, waiting, or resting at home. Those migrant workers who are looking for work in the labor market, those small traders who set up stalls, those shopping guides and salespeople who buy various goods in stores... People who are trying to survive in this society are all facing the embarrassing situation of not being able to make money and have no money to spend.
also made money this year. They made money by relying on self-media, live broadcasting, and the Internet. But whether you are an entertainment anchor, a product delivery anchor, or a blogger of various kinds, your income has also been reduced a lot due to the economic downturn in the general environment.
This year has been really difficult.
people, when you are frustrated, all kinds of troubles and bad luck come one after another. When you are proud, all kinds of good luck will follow.
I am a pessimist, I see reality better than anyone else. Because I think of all the worse outcomes. Often dreams come true. You will fail in this career, no matter how hard you try, you will fail. I am sure that you will fail in this project, so it will fail 100% of the time. There are many people and things around me. They will all arrive at the same result. That's failure. It’s not that I want everyone to fail because they don’t work hard enough, the method is wrong, or for any other reason. But the ultimate reason is because you can't persist, because you have too many ideas, and because you are not determined enough, you fail.
People always choose to give up when they need to persist, choose to persist when they need to give up, choose cowardice when they need to be brave, and choose to be tough when they need to be weak. In fact, it would be great if we continued to persist in many of the things and projects we did at the beginning. But we gave up first because we couldn't persist, because we didn't have a sense of accomplishment, and because we were self-denial.
Most successful people choose to continue to persevere after failure. Fight your way through various crises. If you want to be one of the one percent successful, you have to learn persistence and self-discipline.
There are too many shortcomings in people, and those shortcomings are the reasons that hinder your success. Your laziness, random thoughts, and tendency to give up are all reasons why you choose to give up.
Perhaps now that you think about your determination at that time again, will you regret it or feel that you missed something? But, there is no regret medicine in this world. I won't give you another chance. Now you may be thinking, I must work hard in the future, persist and never give up.
But, tomorrow morning, you still can't get up. What you want to do can never be done. We are all waiting, waiting for tomorrow morning, waiting for time, waiting for energy, day after day, the ones you love have left you, and you realize that you missed a lot of things while waiting.
We all have 24 hours in a day, and some people choose to wait during these 24 hours, waiting for opportunities, waiting for wealth, and waiting for tomorrow. Some people only sleep four to six hours a day and spend the rest of the time working hard. While we are lying flat on the bed and sofa, they are studying, training, and creating... and we will only waste the day.
People are in a state. When they are in a good state, they can succeed in whatever they do. If you are in a bad state, you will fail in whatever you do. We call this state ambition.As for those who have no status, or whose status is negative, their mood is gray, what they do is also a failure, and they fall into the vortex of failure and cannot extricate themselves.
What kind of person can be successful? What kind of person can avoid being swayed by all kinds of interference?
The more you read, the more ideas you have and the more worries you have. People who have more experience will have more worries, more ideas, and more knowledge, and you will be timid in doing things.
It is best to study when you are young, and it is also best to start a business when you are young. Ignorant and fearless, I don't think too much and just do it. Nowadays, we know too much, think too much, and often do too little. We can't blame us for being timid now, but we can't concentrate on studying, pondering and tossing. And those who don’t know anything or have simple ideas are more likely to succeed.
I think this is the way to success, the password for success. Not self-discipline, not hard work, not love, not for anything in return? Just because there are no distracting thoughts in my mind. When you truly have no distracting thoughts, you are not far from success. Everyone knows the truth, but only a few can actually do it.
I know what the current traffic password is? What kind of work can be popular? However, we have too many distracting thoughts in our minds now. Therefore, those who can be popular are those who have no distracting thoughts, like the innocence of children, like the life we yearn for, the things we want to do but dare not do...
There are too many worries in life, too much helplessness in reality, too many clutches in relationships, and too few RMB in the wallet. This is the traffic code, and it is also our resonance. 2023, one less thing to look forward to. Take more action. Otherwise, on December 31, 2023, you will still be here sighing with nothing.
