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We often hope to live a long life.
The so-called hundred years are just a thousand two hundred moons, thirty-six thousand five hundred dawns, and ten ten years.
For people after the age of thirty, ten years may be a matter between fingers. For young people, three or five years is enough to experience a lifetime.
I just past ten years and I am just in between.
01
Ten years ago, I just graduated and entered society from school.
At that time, my expectation for myself was to be young forever and tears filled my eyes.
At that time, he entered the society called flying sand and rocks with full enthusiasm.
At that time, I saw a sentence from Wang Xiaobo : "Life is a process of being beaten. People grow old day by day, and hope disappears day by day."
This person is really irritating.
Now I really want to say sorry, what he said is true.
Some people say that time makes the story complete and turn people into mature.
In fact, what makes people mature is not because of the passing of time.
There are many people and things that can make people aging or mature.
Lovesickness is OK, sorrow is OK, pain and boredom are OK, and living a life of ease...
02
In 2012, he graduated from graduate school and entered a state-owned bank with great enthusiasm.
That year, there were four new colleagues, two of whom were children of local leaders, and the other was a small town worker like me.
From entering the information of credit card applicants from morning to night to running deposit tasks everywhere, the fire in my heart is gradually extinguishing.
has experienced the guests who are chasing others to ask for loans, and has also experienced the filial son and grandson who are urged to repay.
As time goes by, in addition to age, there is also alcohol content. In the first two bottles of beer, they are dizzy, and later they are drinking a box of beer.
gradually became bored and felt unwilling.
Master taught me, "You are still too young."
I was very dissatisfied at that time, and later I realized that youth is an advantage and a disadvantage.
It is right for young people to have ideals, but too ideals are childish.
Two years later, I learned the saying "Adults only talk about pros and cons, and young people only distinguish right from wrong", and I was ready to leave.
took a year to study.
A year later, I was admitted to the Beijing Business Officer.
I want to see how the scenery is after wading through mountains and rivers.
The only feeling I felt was walking in the mountains alone.
Sometimes, it is sunny and walking in the mountains of a person.
Sometimes it is raining heavily, walking between smallness and loneliness.
is covered in mud, and his heart is not covered with dust. I don’t think it’s too painful.
I spent four years trying hard to gain an economic foundation and use it to protect my independence and freedom.
In my trivial life, I yearn for the Hongda world and always have kindness.
The method of a person is to temporarily hide his sword and tie a horse in a society where sand and stones fly.
Four years later, you can choose to study and teach.
Looking back on the past ten years, I actually keep moving forward and looking forward.
occasionally looks back, not to stay but to affirm your past self.
Throughout the storms, the "umbrella" that accompanies you is very simple, it is to love yourself and love the world. This love is pure and has no impurities.
03
Ten years, it's really not short.
Looking back on the past, the wind and rain have long been separated by thousands of mountains and rivers.
Lu Xun said: "No matter what happens, as long as you collect information continuously and accumulate it for ten years, you can always become a scholar." I believe this, I hope you can believe it too.
I spent ten years feeling a few words and encourage you.
Don’t just envy the spider for enjoying its fruits, it has worked hard to compile a network of relationships.
This is the society. Many things cannot be broken or escaped.
disk it. If one person doesn’t work, then organize a group of people.
People who are hated may not be in pain, but people who hate them are scarred.
We can't make everyone like themselves, nor can we like everyone.
Someone can shelter you from the wind and rain, so I feel it.
Someone digs a hole for you to destroy the road, stay away.
The meaning of the iron rice bowl: is not the stability of a place that can last a lifetime of life, but how can you have a calm lifelong life?
is talking about a strong rice bowl, and I have been hovering under this kind of adjustment.
There is no absolute thing, people should have long-term considerations.
Live a couple like a pair of chopsticks. No one can live without each other. Sweet, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty, taste them together.
Couples have their own independence and role and do not lose themselves.
The two of them can have new feelings together to avoid wasting time.
In this life, our lives are nothing more than emotions, career, and self.
These things have thresholds. If you pass, you will be the door, and if you can't pass, you will be the threshold.
A seven-foot body, walking slowly in time for decades, this is "life".
The first half of my life wrote the main text of life, and the second half of my life wrote the comments.
We all look forward to a gorgeous chapter of life.
I hope we all have it, let’s do this old chicken soup that we have made for ten years!
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