In the morning, the dodo bird's morning nest was talked about an interesting topic: electronic devices will be upgraded once in a while, keep patching vulnerabilities, and tend to be perfect. So people also need to go through a period of time to thoroughly sort out, find out negative mentality and laziness, patch, set up countermeasures, and upgrade in a timely manner.
life needs iterative upgrades, and it never stops. This is everyone's consensus. But under this high-pitched horn, how can we, as living lives, get along with the occasional laziness and occasional "spokenness"?
partners have made a wise and sensitive "insensitive" in their lives: with occasional negative states such as stagnation, depression, confusion, loss, etc., and do not rush to drive them away, even if there is some "guilty". Some partners even point to others: they can accept their occasional "showing" and why can't they accept others, especially their children's occasional "showing" and?
"Shut" in life, those useless uses
"Walking water does not rot, the door hinge does not rot". Life can only remain vital only by keeping flowing, but this does not mean that it will always roll forward, without the spinning of vortexes, without the return from reefs, and without the tortuous twists and turns of flooding. However, all the water flows in twists and turns and when it flows back, it breeds unexpected vitality.
Similarly, in our lives, those darkness that has never danced, are quietly growing light.
Mothers who are nourishing themselves every day can occasionally ignore the character of "good mother", "abandoning their husbands and children", go out for a while, watch a movie, go shopping, meet friends, or stay at home, with a mess, letting the house become a "chicken nest", or you can occasionally break the programmatic life and do something different with a willful manner. If you can feel your current desire, you can temporarily call a "shut" without studying or studying for a few days, and you don't have to feel guilty.
All blank spaces in life are the time for life to repair itself.
Just like during the day, our limbs and various organs constantly work under the drive of our own; at night, the limbs stop and move, and the nervous system rest, and the organs silently repair the fatigue and damage the body suffered during the day under the drive of the original nerve.
A good sleep one night in exchange for a different day of us.
The blank space and pause in life give us the opportunity to integrate ourselves and update ourselves, so as to better understand the next step in life.
As creatures in the world, people have the same wisdom as nature. As long as our feelings about life are not blocked by many sensory impressions, chaotic thinking, and chaotic life, every adult has the power to heal itself and knows how life is the most comfortable and comfortable.
is like a sister in a bird's nest saying: Whenever I pause and get tired, I like to dig wild vegetables in the fields. Although it is time-consuming and thankless, I just like to dig wild vegetables, which feels particularly healing.
Don’t rush to get rid of and fight against those "discomfortable" for a while
Dodo teacher also mentioned in the book "What is Mom": being impatient and shouting at children is a disease. Like all diseases, a recovery process needs. And the various things, itineraries, and changes in the world buried behind this disease.
Human intelligence medicine tells us: There is a story hidden in all "symptoms" that is waiting to be listened to, and all "symptoms" are our allies and are here to help us. As long as we can recognize them and maintain gentleness, acceptance and respect for life, all "symptoms" will be "healed without medicine".
The sudden sign in our lives - from time to time stagnation, depression, loss, confusion, etc. are similar to the "symptoms" of disease.
How to identify our "symptoms" and how to understand the secrets that "symptoms" tell us?
First of all, it is necessary to understand that the "symptom" is not a mistake or a problem. It should not be repaired or removed immediately. This is disrespect for people. This is how the machine's faults are handled. There is a story hidden in a person's "symptoms" that is expected to be heard, and it takes time to explore the truth hidden in the "symptoms". "Symptoms" are the deposition of time, just like the annual rings of a tree that record all the secrets of our lives from the beginning to this time. The "symptoms" we are currently facing may be the deep root of the roots in the rings of life. This requires a review of life and self-awareness.
Secondly, trust your own "symptoms", respect yourself, be gentle and patient with yourself, and spend time listening to your symptoms and listening to your feelings.
The more you understand yourself and the more you understand others, the greater your confidence in yourself and the more powerful your life will be. The difficulties that occur to us are all increasing the possibility of understanding our own nature. The era of relying entirely on other people’s feedback to understand ourselves has passed, and we are fully capable of understanding ourselves through , .
again, some negative emotions, sluggish states need to be deeply and completely felt, not judged, not suppressed, not analyzed, not resisted, allowed to happen, take time and let it go.
Finally, remember that all the "troubles" of who repeatedly visit us are reminding us to listen to our inner life. Keep your life keen sense, say yes, and, to a state of stagnation, depression, confusion.
Life needs to be recuperated and recuperated in order to be able to continue to live
The Tao is simple and the Tao follows nature. Naturally, there are spring, summer, autumn harvest, winter storage, interlocking and endless life. The quality of autumn harvest and winter storage affects spring growth and summer growth.
Similarly, our lives have four seasons. Childhood is spring; youth is summer; middle age is autumn; old age is winter. The growth of childhood, the vigorous vitality of young and middle-aged people, the steady and restrained middle-aged people, the peace of old people, and the peace of old people, are still. In the horizontal timeline, life unfolds in this ups and downs of time. Childhood, the life state and encounters of young and middle-aged people determine the state of middle-aged and elderly people, the difficulties encountered and solutions to the difficulties encountered.
looks vertically in the same period. Life has enthusiasm, energy, and doubled efficiency, and is also exhausted and difficult pauses. These "pauses" and " comma " are all the needs of life itself to maintain balance.
When life becomes more and more mature and the more awakens our consciousness, the more we can accept the "sudden" in our lives from time to time.
Therefore, in all days when you have never started dancing and singing in your life, please keep gentle acceptance, leave blank space for your life in silence and pause, let it repair and heal, nourish itself, and thus produce more beautiful flowers.
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