There is a line in "The Godfather": "Don't tell the gods what you really need to do."
What plans do you have and what plans do you have in the future? We cannot tell others, nor can we tell others. Because says too much, and you will be caught by others, it is better not to say it.
There are many people in reality who are unable to keep secrets and prefer to show off, so they have caused trouble. Not to mention that my wish has not been fulfilled, even life has hindered a lot.
These obstacles seem to be caused by others, but in fact they are caused by ourselves. others have no intention of harming us, but we are not mature enough to hide secrets, so we just cause a lot of trouble and enemies.
At a certain age, it is time to apply the "silence is gold". Be silent as a person, we will not offend others, and others will not deliberately hurt us. This is the strategy of "Hello, I'm fine" .
For the sake of peace in old age and the happiness of the rest of your life, we must "hide" these trump cards in time in the years from 50 to 55. Even if you are around you, don't let them know.
1. Don’t let others know about your “career” in making money.
Everyone has their own ways and channels to make money to a greater or lesser extent. No matter whether these ways are not decent and can make people feel face, we should not tell others.
In this era, it is becoming more and more difficult for middle-aged people to make money, and life is becoming less and less difficult. In this case, we should not show our "rice bowl" to others in .
There is a joke on the Internet that says a middle-aged man found a profitable business and made a lot of money, but he doesn't know how to be low-key and always likes to show off. Later, a large number of his relatives came to him for help.
Some relatives hope that the middle-aged man can teach them to make money, while some relatives hope that the middle-aged man can support them. In the end, the middle-aged man was hindered everywhere and could not even make money.
people are in the world. When we encounter a way to make money, what we need to do is not to show off, but to keep our mouths tight and make money silently. How others are doing is, that is someone else's business. And how we live is our own business.
Don't use money to test people's hearts, otherwise you will lose miserably.
2. Don’t let others know how many "capital assets" there are.
In a family, the ones we should be most wary of are those ungrateful wolves who are "unskilled" in .
No matter how much money you invest in them, you will gain nothing in the end. It’s like you investing money into the abyss. No matter how much you invest, this pit will not be filled.
The current environment is not very good. Everyone has a heavy hostility and has a "demonic" attitude towards the word "money". This is not a good thing. Especially for those with some assets, you should be more vigilant.
has seen many cases, such as some people with assets, who do not know how to protect themselves, are in trouble, and the people around have very deep malicious intentions towards them. This is the magic of "money".
The so-called magic of money lies in the fact that it can make people feel "envious, jealous and hatred" and can also make people's hearts twisted. At this time, we must maintain the principle of "no harm to others, no need to be avoided".
In this world, no one wants you to live a good life, and no one is reliable. The only reliable thing about is your wealth assets , which will be an important barrier for you to resist risks in your middle and old age.
3. Don’t let others know about the “relationship” of the family.
The most important people in this life are our parents, children and our spouses who have been with us for many years. Of course, dew couples or halfway couples are the most unreliable.
and these three types of people, we must get along well with them. At least, when people are in their middle and late years, with filial children by their side, their parents can live long and their husbands have a good relationship with us, so their life will be perfect.
However, your family is perfect, in the eyes of others, it seems to be a thorn in the eyes and a thorn in the flesh. The better you live, the more others hate you and even go against you.
These people are usually the people we often call "Shameful" . Moreover, there are a lot of these people. They are either our relatives, some of our relatives and friends, or some passers-by.
Higashino Keigo said that some people hate for no reason. They are mediocre, have no talent, and are mediocre, so your excellence, your talent, your kindness and happiness are all original sins.
For the sake of the safety of our family, for the happiness of our family, and for the stability of our lives, we should not tell others too much about "family". Protecting oneself and one's family is the top priority.
Write to the end
The biggest trump card for middle-aged people is their ability to make money, their money they have, and their relationship with people around them. These three trump cards of are the key to a stable life.
Of course, there are also some trump cards, such as human health, external resources and connections, or personal virtues, which are particularly important.
is just relative to other trump cards, money is easy to attract jackals, tigers and leopards, and a happy family is easy to attract jealousy. Since this is the case, only by hiding both the trump card and the secret can we avoid the covetousness of those who are interested.
The world is becoming more and more complicated, and people's hearts are becoming more and more impatient. Then we might as well be a low-key and smart person to be safe until we grow old.
text/Shushan Youlu
