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at the beginning:
No one will have smooth sailing in this life.
When the scar of time meets the encounter in life, the moment when it comes, some people will make their lives better and better, while others will only have separation and distinction.
Just like that, the person you meet will have an ending.
In marriage, you have to meet a good person so that you can live the best.
After all, the person who sleeps beside you is the person who spends the most time with you in your life and the person who has the greatest impact on your success or failure. He can hypnotize you or destroy you; he can inspire you or destroy you.
It can bring you peace and calmness, or a cool and coldness; it can bring you warmth when you encounter darkness, or a person who puts hurt you when you fall into the trough; it can pull you when you encounter mud, or a person who pushes you into the abyss when you are hit by wind and waves.
So, a "pillower" who can save you will determine your experience, your fortune, and your destiny!
Meeting a good person, adversity and good times are all scenery; suffering and bitterness are all light and gentle.
When you meet a good person, your wealth and destiny will go smoothly; even if you are in trouble, you will be safe.
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The charm of the person next to him will affect the "life direction" of his lover
Good relationships are that you have encountered good resources.
The person next to you seems to be an ordinary existence, but it will inadvertently affect your future.
In love, if you find the right person, your life will be fulfilled by more than half.
is like, Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng .
After she married Liang Sicheng, she did not be a full-time housewife at home, but instead managed the family in an orderly manner and educated her children smart and well-behaved manners, which also affected her husband's life direction in words and deeds.
While taking care of her children, she still reads, writes articles seriously, checks information and logs every day, making her spirit extremely rich and exciting.
What is the charm of a lover in marriage?
Perhaps, the charm of the person next to you is to have an attractive power, allowing you to feel hope and vitality from it.
Under the influence of Lin Huiyin, Liang Sicheng also devoted himself to the construction industry. The couple is deeply in love, just like the Condor Heroes walking in the world. They have gone through many difficult years together, visited many ancient building complexes across the country together, leaving behind nearly a thousand precious manuscripts.
In the six years of Lizhuang, Lin Huiyin's lung disease worsened, and their lives were so hard that they had to rely on pawnshops to live. However, even in the situation of broken mountains and rivers and exile at that time, someone advised them to go abroad, but Lin Huiyin still said firmly: Our motherland is in disaster, and we cannot leave her.
And, at this moment, she began to assist Liang Sicheng in writing the Chinese's own "History of Chinese Architecture".
Every night, he supported his thin body and outlined the architectural epic of the Chinese nation under the kerosene lamp, while Lin Huiyin helped him collect information.
can be seen, the spiritual dependence between them and the connection between their husband and wife.
There is a saying: Follow the flies and you will find a stinky ditch; follow the butterflies and you will smell the fragrance of flowers.
She used her passion to influence his soul; he used his love to make her charm like a flower and fragrant.
In this life, finding a good lover is never as simple as living together. Instead, she is by your side and can wake you up at any time, let you find the passion in life, and make you more positive about your future life.
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The mood of the person next to him will affect his lover's "being with others"
" Who are you with is important " There is a saying in: There are many talented poor people in this world.
The so-called "poverty" is not because there is no money, because most people, as long as they can find a way out to make a living, most of them will not starve to death. The most feared thing is that they are "poor in their hearts".
Once people are poor, they will encounter small things and will vent their anger. At this time, if he had a person beside him who had the same mood as him, then most of them would live in every corner of their lives for the rest of their lives, instead of actively changing and actively getting out of the predicament.
Therefore, the mood of the person next to him will actually have a profound impact on his lover's behavior.
Life has not been smooth sailing. Most of the time, it is stormy waves and calm and windless, alternating from time to time. No one hopes that when encountering a crisis, seeing the people around you will only complain and complain.
So, when your pillow is comfortable, I advise you not to be arrogant; when you are in trouble, you will remind you not to be discouraged and not to give up... This kind of wisdom of not bowing to the years and being elegant and self-sustaining will also make you dare to ride the wind and waves without fear or fear.
Actor Zhang Jin said a sentence when he won the Academy Awards: My wife is Academic Shaofen . Some people say that my happiness depends on her. I can tell everyone, that's right, my happiness in this life depends on her.
Many couples, after being with each other for many years, ignore the people around them and feel that their success depends on their own hard work.
Zhang Jin and Ada Choi admire each other, each of whom is a fan of each other. Ada Choi is even known as the "husband-showing maniac". She once said: Actually, I am not showing off, I really appreciate him.
Over the years, you can see that one of the couple is getting better and better in their careers, and the other is nourished by their marriage and is more beautiful and charming.
It can be seen that in a husband and wife relationship, a good person by his side is actually his own living Bodhisattva. If you are successful, he will accompany you to the glory. If you are tired, he will accompany you to rest.
Marriage, like a canvas, if you paint the pain on it, you will let your lover see the darkness and emptiness; if you paint the happiness on it, you will let your lover see the brilliance and surprise.
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Conclusion:
Zhang Ailing once said: Life is a gorgeous robe with lice crawled on it.
people will have too many regrets in their lifetime. There will always be eight out of ten unsatisfactory things, and the person next to us is the joy God has given us "one or two".
Whether it is adversity or good times, he will always be by your side, allowing you to overcome difficulties with a positive attitude, allowing you to use a calm mind to smooth the thorns and welcome the warmth of spring.
The relationship between husband and wife is to be under the same roof, and no one can do without each other. They are tolerant, care for each other, tolerate each other, tolerate each other, encourage each other, and cheer each other up.
Maybe, it is not the most charming thing in your eyes, nor the sweetest mouth, but when you need it, it will definitely be by your side, giving you comfort and strength;
Maybe it is not the most beautiful thing in your eyes, but it will support you when you encounter trouble, give you warmth when you need help, and give you comfort when you feel pain.
In life, in fact, many emotions depend on each other does not happen in the moment of joy, but the understanding and love given to you when you encounter suffering.
So, life is long, cherish your pillow! He is your destiny for the rest of your life, and the most cherished beauty in your life.
Author, calm fox
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May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
