People often complain:
Obviously did nothing, but I felt very tired;
toss and turns at night because of other people's comments and opinions;
0 1 I was so upset that I couldn't extricate myself from the mistakes and unsatisfactions of the past.
In fact, this is competing with yourself, but the result is that you can only waste your energy.
The reason why people suffer from internal friction is because they are performing a big drama in their hearts. Only by facing difficulties and cultivating the inner world can you reduce internal consumption.
Don't compare, look around and you will only lose your direction
I have seen a very popular saying:
"Don't compare wealth with others, you will have resentment when comparing;
Don't compare heroic with others, you will be stupid when comparing."
Comparison is to achieve the happiness of others and waste your own time.
Everyone has their own hardships and pains, so stay optimistic and look forward.
Set your mindset, find your own position, be down-to-earth, and do what you should do.
Even if the days are trivial, as long as you don’t compare, you will be peaceful and contented; even if life is hard and tiring, you will be quiet and rich without looking around.
Don’t set limits, never reject new attempts
set limits for yourself, it will only imprison yourself and flow into mediocrity; only by actively striving and bravely trying can you realize your potential and live a free and easy life.
There is a sentence like this:
"The only limit for a person is the limit in his mind."
So, should never set limits for yourself. Many obstacles did not exist at first, but their own timidity was at work.
If you break free from the knot of thinking, you will not be able to confine your difficulties; if you do not set limits for yourself, you will not be able to limit your performance.
Unlimited life, no hesitation, and the prospect is bright.
1 Only by taking the initiative can you fill yourself up
Carnegie once said:
"Unless others ask him to do it, people who will never take the initiative to do things will be destined to achieve nothing."
Passively obey the orders in everything will only put themselves in a passive position. Only by taking the initiative can we achieve longer-term development.
Dreams must be fulfilled by yourself; life must be fulfilled by yourself.
"The benefits of taking the initiative may not appear within one or two days.
But if you persist for a long time and take the initiative to do things, you can distance yourself from others."
An empty life makes people lose their will, and a fulfilling life is full of meaning.
Find the meaning of living every day and live a fulfilling life without wasting your life.
Don't be negative, hard things will turn around
Philosopher Socrates Once met someone, and saw him crying all day long, he kindly enlightened him.
has a lot of truths, but this person still finds it difficult to let go of his past feelings, and then complains:
"The grapes I got were lost. You have never experienced this regret and loss, so how can you know the sourness in it?"
Socrates finished listening and said slowly:
"If you lose it, you will lose it. If you continue to move forward, you will see a lot of delicious grapes. There is no need to be sad about this grape that does not belong to you.
Thank you for the person who abandoned you and wish her blessings. Because she has given you a new opportunity to find happiness."
In a confused mood, if you change your mood, you will no longer be deeply trapped in it, and you can start from scratch.
From now on, be more open-minded when encountering things, learn to be optimistic, and there will be a turning point no matter whether it is difficult or difficult.
Live a little happier, all unwillingness and despair will eventually become yesterday without recalling.
No extravagant hope, more peace of mind
Sometimes life will be consumed by unrealistic desires.
When a person's ability cannot support his inner desires, he will feel anxious and irritable, and internal friction will follow.
Many tragedies in life are not because of mediocre ability, but because they know that they are mediocre ability, they still think randomly all day long, hoping to live a life far beyond their ability.
As Laozi said: "There is no greater disaster than being dissatisfied, and the fault is no greater than wanting to gain."
Life is not hard, what is bitter is that there are too many desires, no physical and mental fatigue, and what is tired is that you bear too much.
Only as long as a person is willing to restrain his desires and is satisfied with living a simpler life, the territory of his life will be wider.
Don’t expect too much, you can be at peace; only by knowing how to be content can you be happy.
Source | Poetry Reading Club, Fan Deng Reading, Ten Points Reading
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