Not all days are sunny, but on all days, you and I can keep your heart warm.
or below, four very warm sentences, I will give you and me.
01: When you are irritated, find a place to stay quietly to calm your mind
Even if we wake up in the morning to cheer ourselves up, we still cannot avoid all kinds of bad things, and we still cannot avoid all kinds of unsurpassed difficulties.
Sometimes, we have made a lot of efforts, but in the end we still cannot get the desired result. We are clearly moving forward with all our might, but in the end we still cannot touch our ideals.
We are struggling in pain, we are struggling in pain, so our mood becomes more and more irritable.
It is normal to be irritable once or twice, but if we fall into this state for a long time, our enthusiasm will be easily worn out, our motivation will be easily dissipated, and our negative mentality will gradually fill the rest of our lives.
When you are irritated, find a place to stay quietly to calm your mind.
After calming down, you will understand that there are many things in life that are destined to be unavailable. Even if you put in your efforts, you will not be treated well.
Things in the world have been difficult to achieve both worlds since ancient times. If you want to get something, you will inevitably lose something. Therefore, you don’t have to be too impetuous when facing gains and losses.
calm your mind, carefully analyze the reasons, and carefully explore the way forward.
02: Become your biggest backer
During decades of life, there are always times when we pin our hopes on others. We think others can shelter us from the wind and rain for the rest of our lives. Until later, after the hope is dashed, we gradually realize that relying on others is not reliable.
In fact, in this stormy road of life, everyone is a lone hero.
Maybe on a certain road, someone is willing to shelter us from the wind and rain, but when the journey has reached the end, we can only rely on ourselves to become our greatest backer for the remaining roads.
No one has to take care of anyone, no one has to help anyone, only one is the one who truly knows his or her own well-being, and only one is the one who can truly help him.
It’s hard to have a day, but as long as you get through it, your hope will come as scheduled.
Only by controlling our destiny can we reach where we really want to reach and get the happiness we really want to get.
03: Don’t think about the past, don’t fear the future
Matsuura Yataro once said this:
"Those who are often trapped in anxiety and anxiety often have the problem of thinking too much."
Indeed, random thoughts are the easiest to cause unnecessary trouble to people.
When something has happened, no matter how much regret it is, it is useless; when something has not come, no matter how much worry it is, it is useless. And the only thing we can change is the present moment, and the only thing we can grasp is the present moment.
We cannot change the past, we cannot predict the future, which is destined. Too much mixing with the past and future things will only make us suffer.
If a person has too many obsessions in his heart, he will be bound everywhere in his life and will not be able to live a relaxed life.
Only by not thinking about the past and not fearing the future can you live a good life.
04: The accumulated good will sooner or later be rewarded to you
There is an old saying: "Good and evil will eventually be rewarded."
Things in the world are a process of cause and effect cycle. What kind of cause you sow in the first half of your life, what kind of results you will gain in the second half of your life, and no one can escape such reincarnation.
Don’t worry that your kindness will not be discovered. If you do good, there will always be someone who discovers your goodness, unless that person is not worthy of your kindness, and that person is not worthy of your cherishment.
. For those who are not worth it, just smile indifferently. There is no need to forget their original intention because of their ungratefulness, and not disturb their good mood because of their dissatisfaction.
In fact, the accumulated good will be rewarded to you sooner or later. For example, when you are in trouble, those who are willing to lend a helping hand to you must be the blessing you have accumulated.
Do not do good deeds because of small good deeds, and do not do evil deeds because of small evil.
A person's behavior will eventually be repaid to himself. If he does good, he will be rewarded with good deeds. If he does evil, it will only be rewarded with evil deeds.
for more than one life, I hope you and me can become a warm person.
I am Aya, the writer of warm emotions. How lucky I can meet you in this life! Click to follow and let’s learn together!
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