Today, I was called a "person who lives in a vacuum" by my colleagues again. Haha, my friends and colleagues said more than once that I am a "person who lives in a vacuum". I always smiled slightly and didn't agree.
They probably mean that I am isolated from the outside world, haha, it is not, I just don’t like gossiping others very much. In the world, things are chaotic. In my company, I rarely ask or convey other people’s private affairs or gossip. One is respect, and the other is dislike. Some things may become distorted as they are spread. I really don’t like such freedom of speech.
On the first day after the seven-day holiday, I just returned to the office after finishing the nucleic acid. My colleague asked me if I noticed another colleague's circle of friends. I looked up and smiled and said, I never post on WeChat Moments, and I rarely follow other people's circle of friends. My colleague smiled and said that I am really a "person who lives in a vacuum". I don't agree. Although I have more than 400 people on WeChat, including parents and friends one after another, the contacts are only limited. To be honest, I haven't opened my circle of friends for a long time. Those who do micro-businesses keep posting dazzling advertisements. Vaing people always post this and that from time to time, eat a cake, drink a cup of milk tea, and go out for a meal to post it. For me, it's meaningless. I really don't like this atmosphere. Over time, I won't watch it, and I don't even have the interest to open my circle of friends.
The last time someone said that I was about two weeks ago. After finishing my honors course in a special classroom at noon, I was about to leave. One of my colleagues had always been in the same grade before. In recent years, because they were scattered in two campuses, there were not many opportunities to meet. She happened to come to my campus. When she saw me, she couldn't wait to enter the special classroom and turned around and closed the door. Haha, and then shared with me various things that happened in her campus. The most common thing was the gossip of leaders and colleagues. Every time she talked about something, she had to ask me, do you know? I shook my head and said I didn’t know. She said, “How could you not know?” Everyone in the school should know!
Seeing that I was stunned and unbelievable when I heard it, she scolded me and said that I was a "person who lives in a vacuum." She spoke with interest with relish, and I listened without any attention. Regardless of the truth or falsehood, the gossip and private lives of colleagues and leaders were spreading like this, okay? Finally, I interrupted her and said, "Don't tell others about these things." You must have been passed on to you by others, maybe it's not true?" She glanced at me and murmured that it must be true! I said let's try to talk about other people's strengths and weaknesses as much as possible!
People live in groups and they will inevitably be told about their long and shortcoming. Behind good people, there are bad people, behind bad people, and behind everyone, there are people. Personally, I think that in the same unit, colleagues, they look down and see each other. Try to avoid discussing people’s strengths and weaknesses and be yourself! Sometimes it’s not bad to be a person living in a vacuum at work.
