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Opening sentence:
People have passed forty, and there are two watersheds in life.
Either life is magnificent, and you will build a foundation, and your mood will become more and more calm; or you will still be anxious, dull, but you will feel unwilling and want to fight again.
No matter what kind of life you are in, as long as you are safe, it is a good life.
After all, in our lives, we have different experiences, different backgrounds, and different causes and conditions, and many differences will occur in the path we take.
people come and go. Those who have always had good luck may not be rich or noble, nor may they be in a high position. Instead, they can always have hope in their life of hardships and happiness, and always live calmly and detached.
Life, for most middle-aged people, there are only two words "not easy" that can be described. Many difficult things will bother you from time to time, and many winds and rains will keep making you unable to sleep or eat.
Su Dongpo once said:
The wind is strong and the sky is high and the apes are roaring and mourning, and the sand is clear and the white birds fly back. The endless fallen trees are rustling down, and the endless Yangtze River is rolling in.
Perhaps, this is the best expression of mood after middle age.
Life is cumbersome, and days move forward. Although the days of "old and young" are difficult, they are a little sweet in the bitterness; although the responsibility on your shoulders is heavy, they will also make you shine with the brilliance of life at any time.
Everything comes from your attitude towards life.
Those who "don't leave their words" on weekdays, you will find that good luck will always happen to them.
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often say "steady and confident"
talk show Pang Bo "I want to go to Shanghai", instantly touching the hearts of many middle-aged people, remembering the struggled self when they were young.
people are middle-aged. When you look back, your deep eyes are the figure who rushes forward desperately when you are young.
In "Journey to the West", no one would have thought that the Sun Wukong , who would go through eighty-one difficulties along the way, accompanied Tang Seng, and traveled generously without regrets without confirming whether he could obtain the true scriptures in the future.
The magnificence of life actually lies in the fact that you use a down-to-earth heart to realize your wishes bit by bit.
What you say is never a complaint, nor does it emphasize some objective difficulties, nor does it mean to find reasons for failure from others.
But just use your confidence, courage, perseverance, dullness, calmness and calmness.
Yes, Sun Wukong can be as calm as a chrysanthemum from the five hundred years of being pressed on Wuzhishan. Then, we can also have a proud body. After all the hardships, we can survive even if we know it is hardship.
Those who keep "stable and confident" words on their lips will still catch up even when they reach middle age, and even if they are unknown, they can move forward safely in stuttering.
Life is full of many regrets, but if you want to realize your dream, you can seriously "fight monsters and upgrade" no matter what age you are at.
people are 40 years old, maybe you have seen the beauty of the vast ocean, and have experienced being bullied by dogs in the sun. A sense of "stability" means you can overcome mediocrity.
people's hearts can be shaped.
Faith lies in the fact that with a sense of steadfastness and confidence, you can see the vast ocean and the vastness of the world, feel the freedom to live, and welcome the arrival of good luck.
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often say "appreciate others"
In this life, only when you know how to appreciate others can you be appreciated by others.
When you are young, you will always feel a little restless and feel that I am the only one in the world. But when you are over forty years old, you will understand that the more you discover other people’s shortcomings, the more you will be looked down upon by others.
people live, the key is to have "self-knowledge".
How many people are good at looking at themselves, but the others in their eyes are always inferior to them. Some people even find their own gratitude in the misfortunes of others, speak wildly, and be arrogant.
But don’t forget, we are grass or big trees, we never think we are.
Those who often say "appreciate others", you will find that they always use a broad mind to gain respect from others.
And those who always ignore others and always use a picky eye to find out the shortcomings of others to prove that they are "strong". They will also live backwards and eventually fall into cramps and shallowness.
The ancients said: You love others, and people will always love them.
Perhaps, this sentence is the profound meaning of " treats others with mercy and treats yourself with strictness".
People who often say "appreciate others" will not only receive respect and encouragement from others, but also speak like "warmth sent in winter", which brings hope and touch to others.
In this world, everything has its own strengths and weaknesses. Even if those who once were full of injuries, as long as they "appreciate others", one day they will get out of their confusion and usher in the beauty.
The arrival of good luck is actually because you can applaud others' wonderful things and understand the efforts behind others. turns arrogance into humility, and turns grief and anger into strength, not delicate or artificial, so as to encourage yourself to move forward even more.
Life is long, and good luck after the age of forty is that you use words of appreciation to broaden the height and breadth of your life.
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often say "happy and happy"
see a story.
A middle-aged man lent his car to a friend, and his friend was in a car accident. He was jointly and severally responsible, and he lost all his savings for many years and sold his house to pay off his debts. His wife divorced him in anger and took the child away.
The man was completely disappointed and wanted to leave the world.
So he bought sleeping pills and thought about going to see his old father again, so he swallowed the sleeping pills and committed suicide. His father's words instantly made him hope again: No matter what you have experienced, parents will not give up on you. No one in this world is destined to be destined.
The man cried and deeply repented in front of his parents. Then, he swallowed the past, swallowed the grievances, and had the courage to start over.
Yes, in this life, people still have to worry about drinking the northwest wind when they reach middle age, and they need to use some kind of courage to bless them.
The man kept comforting himself. He would say to himself in the mirror every day: You should be happy today, and work hard to cheer!
Two years later, he regained his confidence and used the technology he had accumulated over the years to become the middle-level company.
Yes, no one is destined to do so. When you keep encouraging yourself with a contentment, happy heart, and always encourage yourself, you are actually half successful.
The arrival of good luck is never the peak, but when you are in the trough, it will make you develop a belief from the bottom of your heart, constantly encourage yourself, break through yourself, endure all kinds of criticism, and finally usher in Nirvana and rebirth.
Therefore, when people are alive, they must say more words to make themselves happy and happy. You must remember that all this past is the prologue.
The journey of life is a long and long way for everyone. Only by being happy can you break through the thorns, cut off the demons, and welcome surprises in your life.
Conclusion:
In fact, when people reach middle age, what they fear most is not that you have no good luck, but that "good luck" even if you come to you, you can't take it.
You should know that in this world, the most murderous thing invisibly is that you give up on yourself.
When you always care too much about other people's gaze and external things too much, and he is too "worrying" and he will lose many opportunities to get good luck.
Therefore, when people live, they must remember deeply: your mouth is your blessing, and you often say beautiful words, which is to bring blessings to yourself.
often say "being down-to-earth and confident". Don't always complain or complain. Only when people are alive can they achieve something;
often say "appreciate others" and don't always look for other people's shortcomings and cannot see your own shortcomings. You should know that a good word warms up in winter and a bad word hurts people in June.
often say "happy and happy", don't always be lost, sad, and uneasy. Only if you have hope in your heart can you embrace a better tomorrow.
people are over forty, good luck is not to live in a luxurious house, but to be able to "sit in a leisurely house, and the lights are friendly"; people are over forty, good luck is not to have the power to respond to one's response, but to have good relatives and friends, and physical health as a guarantee.
people are over forty years old, good luck lies in your words.
Author, calm fox
picture, online
May you find the deep affection in my words in the ordinary years! Thanks for your attention!
