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saw a video online: Before graduating from college, the teacher taught her classmates the last class on the podium.

This time, she did not teach subject knowledge, but just shared some of her experience in life with her students.

For them, the teacher is just a fellow traveler who has been with them for a journey, and the future belongs to them.

In life, we will actually hear various suggestions, but your own life still depends on yourself.

1. Don’t regret the choice you made yourself

Once I saw a story where two peers went to find a job, they came to a store, and both of them passed the interview.

However, after a brief thought, one chose to agree and stayed to work hard, and the other chose to continue looking.

The two agreed that they must work hard to realize their dreams. After that, they had not met for many years. When I saw

again, the person who stayed behind had become the store manager and would soon be transferred to the headquarters to work.

And the other person is still looking for a job. He has never had a job in these years and has worked for more than three months.

The former asks the latter, isn’t everything you have done suitable for you? The latter answered, but it was not.

But, he was always busy looking forward, always feeling that he deserved something better, but when he made a choice, he began to regret it again.

So, when others are working hard down to earth, their life is basically used to regret the choices they made in the past.

It is this bad habit that has led to his success in nothing after so many years.

2. We are ordinary people

I read a comment: "Young people nowadays are always too ambitious, but when doing things, they are always too arrogant and low-key."

Indeed, many young people lack basic objective assessment of themselves, but there are also reasons why many people often encounter walls.

Why do they always fail? Is it really because their technical capabilities are not enough? Or are there too few opportunities?

In fact, many times, it is just because some people feel that they should not be willing to live a mediocre and ordinary life.

They saw on the Internet that if someone does something, they can make a fortune. If someone takes a video, they can easily get rich and free.

But in fact, these successful people are only rare, and there are many more people who fail and are not known.

Why are some people successful? Not only because they put in their efforts and tried their best, but also because they seized the opportunity.

If one day, if you try your best, you still can't achieve your goal. Maybe it's just because you are not suitable. After all, everyone is just an ordinary person.

3. Emotion is a part of life

See a story: A girl in a third-tier city, her monthly fixed income can reach about 20,000.

and her other half is in another city. The two of them have been talking about this different place for a long time. If they want to continue, one person must sacrifice.

The boy said that if he asked the girl to give up her job and marry into his own city, he promised that he would raise girls in the future and take good care of their homes.

However, a girl’s job was achieved by her hard work. She knew very well that if she lost it, she would not find similar opportunities again.

so, she was very confused. On one side was the person she liked, and on the other side was her home and work, and she couldn't make a choice.

In fact, many people will face similar problems: "When I can only choose one of love and career, what should I choose?"

is very simple. Choose the part that you have put in more effort and finally got, and don't give up your life because of other people's promises.

Love is beautiful and is also a choice that many people flock to. However, emotions only occupy one part of our lives, and that is not the whole.

4. Think clearly, your future

As we grow older, there will always be various choices of big and small in our lives.

Compared with the past, these choices will greatly change our future, so you need to make careful choices.

But no matter how you choose, one thing you need to know is that no matter how it develops, you are responsible for this result.

So, don’t act irritably, don’t be too arrogant, and don’t give up on yourself for the sake of others.

Because, usually the result of these three choices will be regrets you don’t want to bear and irreversible.

or above, I wish you a good dream and good night.