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. It is very important in every stage of life, and it is even more important after the age of fifty.
Because after the age of fifty, the cost of trial and error is much greater than when you were young. When you saw someone wrong when you were young, you took a wrong path or did something wrong, and there is also a chance to start over again. However, after the age of fifty, you may not be able to do it again, and you can only make mistakes again and again, making your later life more and more difficult.
This requires us to live a more sober and transparent life after the age of fifty, and to see clearly who are worth dating and what is really worth doing.
Only by making the most correct and most suitable choice can you avoid detours and make your future life smoother.
After the age of fifty, no matter how kind you are or how soft you are, you must dare to turn against the following four types of people. They not only do not have sincerity towards you, but also use and calculate. Instead of entangling more, it is better to draw a clear line as soon as possible.
1: Play with you, try to use your people
Some people can do whatever they want to achieve their goals. When they find that you have value in use, they will try their best to approach you and pretend to be close to you. When they use you to achieve your goals, they will abandon you like a piece of grass. People like
have never had any sincerity towards you, only make careful use of it.
Lao Liu was a leader at the same time before retirement. Once he got sick and had not been in touch with a nephew who had been running around for a long time to take care of him. He was very moved at the time and felt that he was more reliable than his own son.
But later I realized that he had a purpose in doing this. He wanted Lao Liu to arrange a job for him in his previous unit. Lao Liu told him that he had retired and had no power, and the other party immediately changed his face.
At that moment, Lao Liu realized that this nephew had no kindness from the beginning and was full of calculating for himself. If you encounter such a person, keep a distance to avoid being deceived by him.
2: People who always make things difficult for you, ask you to help for free but never be grateful
There are always some people in life who ask others to help you at all, and they don’t think about whether it is convenient for others. Moreover, they never know how to be grateful, but instead think that it is better to help him than others.
For example, in the workplace, some colleagues see that you are soft-hearted and easy to talk, will ask you to help him do the work that he doesn’t want to do or cannot do, and then take the fruits of your labor to seek credit.
It is all his credit for your good work. If you make a mistake, he will betray you. For people like
, I suggest you go as far as you want to turn your back.
From the moment he made things difficult for you and asked you to help, he no longer took you seriously. Don’t feel embarrassed to reject him. The more merciless you show, the more arrogant he is. Some people are bullying the weak and afraid of the strong.
3: Habitual Moral kidnapping you, a person who has no bottom line in dealing with people
After the age of fifty, you should try to be a cruel person. Appropriately, kind and not ruthless, but a great soberness, because not everyone deserves your kindness and kindness.
For example, those who are habitually morally kidnapped have no basic concept of right and wrong. They never think that your help is affection, but that it is duty.
Since that's the case, why do you spoil them?
When he asks you for help again, explicitly refuse or tell him how much money he needs to pay, how much cost or how much price he needs to pay, if he gets angry, tell him that there is no free lunch in the world and his help is never cheap.
4: People who are untrustworthy and shameless and do not know how to repent at all
Some people have always been in person and behind the scenes. They can never do what they promise you. They are not only lacking credit, but also shameless. Dating with such people will only make things difficult for themselves.
Uncle Zhang once lent an old friend three thousand yuan, but the other party agreed to do so but still didn't pay it back. Every time he asked him for it, he would have a new reason.
Uncle Zhang saw through this person and never wanted to have any contact again. However, he did not expect that he not only did not pay back the money but also came to borrow it from himself, but also said that he had a lot of pension and was definitely not short of money.
is so shameless and has no bottom line, which completely overturned Mr. Zhang's three views. He simply did not do anything and told him directly that if he didn't pay back the money, he would go to his children or family, which would ruin his reputation and lose his integrity in his later years.
The other party saw that he was serious and stopped.
It turns out that treating extraordinary people requires extraordinary means. Sometimes the softer you are, the more you make the other party feel bullied and dare to turn against each other. Instead, it is a protection for yourself.
at the end:
Please remember that those who make things difficult for you or use you are not good people themselves. You don’t need to show mercy. It is wise to dare to turn against each other. Don’t worry too much. After all, some people break off diplomatic relations, but instead make a profit.
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