The more you get in life, the heavier the burden on life will be. And we always have to wait until we really lose or have to give up something, and we will find that we don’t really need much. Some things, with or without, cannot have a substantial impact on our lives. Yes, it is the icing on the cake, and without it, it will not harm you. You will be calm when you get it and calm when you lose it.
Ma Yinchu Mr. Ma Yinchu has a famous saying: "Be complacent and calm, be frustrated and calm." The so-called complacent and calm means that when you get promotion, wealth, reputation and other external things, you should take it lightly, and don't be proud and forget it. The so-called frustration and calmness means that when encountering setbacks in studies, career, marriage, family, life, etc., do not blame others, do not give up on yourself, can rise up from adversity, be brave to fight, and start over from scratch.
There are always gains and losses in life. For example, wealth can bring people enjoyment, but it can also bring us troubles. The key is to balance gains and losses.
In fact, no matter what kind of life it is, there are gains and losses. We must understand that life gains and losses are impermanent. We must know how to cherish what has been obtained, but we do not have to be proud of it; we do not have to suffer or be disappointed when we have lost. The most stupid thing to do is to lose more, but gain more, worry about gains and losses. A person who is worried about gains and losses is like holding ice cubes in summer and holding a stove in winter. It seems to have it, but in fact, he is always suffering from the pain of fear of loss.
As the saying goes, "It is a blessing to lose a man and a man loses his horse." A philosopher said, "If a person adds up the gains and losses in his life, the result he gets will inevitably be zero. In other words, from the time he comes to this world to the time he leaves this world, he will definitely get as much as he loses.
Most people can face "gain" with a calm attitude, but cannot face "loss" calmly. It seems that it is natural to get what he wants. It is unacceptable to the truth once it is lost. In fact, many gains and losses in life may be due to our "loss". Because that day I missed the train, but I met you; because that day I lost my job, I had to knock on another door of life again. The moon has its phases, people have good fortune and good fortune every day, and in life, there are always gains and losses. Since gains and losses are difficult to measure, misfortunes and good fortune are impermanent, why not be open-minded and free? Get calm and calm.
