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In life, there is no casual success, nor the pie that falls from the sky. If we want to achieve something and to get something, we must know how to make our own efforts.
"Their abilities are not talented or innate, but through their unremitting efforts, they constantly strengthen their hearts, constantly hone their will, and ultimately achieve a brilliant life."
In this world, each of us is an ordinary mortal, and everyone has to endure all kinds of sufferings in life. Especially when you grow up, if you don’t suffer hardships and just think about good times, then you will never be able to get out of the ivory tower.
When you encounter difficulties, don’t blame others or blame the unfairness of fate. In fact, everyone will encounter all kinds of difficulties and difficulties in life. This is the norm, and you are not the only one.
We must know how to calm our mindset and not be petty in everything. Everything that happens in life and everyone that appears in life have special meaning and can help me learn something.
"The good or bad mentality will affect our behavior. If our mentality is positive, we will not feel difficult to do anything, but will feel twice the result with half the effort; if our mentality is negative, we will feel uncomfortable in everything we do, and we will eventually do nothing."
People have never been smooth sailing forever. Everyone's life is full of ups and downs, and suffering is with us, and we cannot avoid it. There are few struggles in life. Instead of living a life of mediocrity and fear, it is better to face it bravely and fight a path.
In life, if you can survive the following three kinds of sufferings, you will win.
01
After the pain of loneliness, you will follow
Life is long, not everyone can accompany you forever, not all friends can help you forever. After all, you have to face the difficulties of life yourself; after all, you have to walk the path of life yourself.
Although some people are all in the world. But many times, each of us is a lonely shadow in the cold river. Many of us have met each other, but we have never met each other.
The quick encounters in life are all figures that pass by us. No one will stay in anyone’s life for too long. Everyone has their own life path to rush.
"The road is long, and if we want to achieve a career, we all have to go through a lonely time. During this time, many people do not understand themselves, many people do not know what we want, and only we know what we want."
Other people's sarcasm is the norm, and other people's ridicule and contempt will not be interrupted. If you do not have enough patience and do not have strong will, you will lose yourself in various external interference.
Therefore, we must stick to our beliefs and believe in our will. As long as we survive the pain of loneliness, our lives will surely be smooth.
02
End the pain of emotional frustration, you are fine
fate is destined, and there is no way to deal with others. Who can we meet, who can we love, and who we can stay with until old age, actually God is arranged in the dark.
We will have people we like and people we like. But many times, the people we like don’t like ourselves, and the people we like don’t like ourselves...
"In the TV series " The Legend of Zhen Huan ", Zhen Huan said this: in the world by chance never stops, it’s common."
Yes! In the world of love, we always encounter all kinds of love but cannot get it, and we always have to accept all kinds of helplessness. The person you want to love has not stopped, but the person you don’t love is entangled.
Fellowship cannot be forced. When the person we love deeply chooses to leave, although we feel extremely uncomfortable, we also understand that love cannot be forced. Only by letting go of our persistent heart can we let go of the hearts of both of us.
The bitterness of emotions is the most bitter difficulty in this world, and only you know the pain in your heart.
In fact, fate has been arranged long ago. People who cannot get it now prove that they are not people in their lives. As long as they know how to let go, they will definitely wait for the destined person.
When we can survive the pain of our relationship and let go of our obsessions, we will meet the happiness of the next stop.
03
End the hardship of danger and despair, you will win
On the road of life, we will always fall accidentally. At this time, if you choose to lie flat, you will lose your fighting spirit; if you choose to cheer up, you will have a chance to turn over.
"In life, it is not scary to encounter difficulties. What is scary is that you have lost the courage to overcome difficulties. No matter how hard our life is, no matter how lonely our hearts are, we must choose to face difficulties."
There is no so-called dead end in life, and what you think is a dead end actually has an outlet. The mountains and rivers are full of no way. , there is another village with dark willows and flowers. Don’t let yourself get into trouble. The more difficult it is, the more you need to be sober. If you persist and work hard, you will definitely find a way out.
When we have overcome the hardships of danger and despair, when we survive in a desperate situation, we will no longer be afraid of any difficulties and we can win a bright future.
In life, if you survive these three kinds of sufferings, you will win!
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