When you face the mirror and look at the familiar figure, do you feel a little tired? The long-lost style makes you feel that you are the "most suitable" yourself. Dressing up, speaking, dealing with people, all behaviors form a fixed pattern. Do you feel that life is becoming monotonous? Change the status quo, don’t need to change your phone, change your job, change your environment... Changing yourself is the most effective way! A person’s life cannot be smooth sailing, there will always be difficulties or obstacles of one kind or another. Sometimes, in order to overcome these obstacles, you have to change your way. Sometimes, we are too persistent and always say, "I used to be like this! Why can't I do it now?" That's because it's not the past. Only by changing yourself correctly and knowing how to follow the trend can you find a way to survive, overcome obstacles, and achieve your goals.
A small river flows down a mountain, passing through grasslands, forests, villages, and finally flowing to the desert. At this point, it feels lighter. "I've walked through so many obstacles, and I believe I can definitely pass through such a flat terrain. More than. It thought. When it started walking on its own, it found that its water was swallowed up by the desert and turned into sand. It tried many times, but in vain.
It was disheartened, "Is that so?" Could it be my home, can I never reach the vast ocean that I have lost for a long time? It's frustrating. Suddenly, it heard a voice: "The breeze can pass through the desert, so it should be a river." "It turns out that the desert is encouraging the river. The river still has no confidence. "The breeze can fly by, but I can't fly." " "The desert said strongly this time: "If you still stick to the original method, you will never be able to cross this vast desert. You can take a look again, evaporate into the air and let the wind take you through this desert. Wouldn't your wish come true? "Change my original appearance and evaporate into the air?" ” I have never thought of such a thing. Xiaohe was a little panicked.
"This is impossible, isn't this self-destruction? "Xiaohe cannot accept this change. "That's not destruction, it's rebirth." Desert explained patiently. "What's going on with rebirth? The river still looked puzzled. "You evaporated into the air and turned into water vapor, but your shape changed, allowing the breeze to carry water vapor through the desert, and when it reaches the right place, it releases water vapor and condenses into raindrops. These raindrops are getting closer and closer to the sea and earth, converging into rivers. Isn’t this your rebirth? This will keep you moving forward, so, once, twice… slowly approach the sea until it joins the sea you desire. “The desert gives a scientific explanation. “That’s no longer me. " Xiaohe said timidly.
"It can be said yes, it can be said not. But, you think, no matter whether you are a tangible river or an invisible water vapor, your nature has changed. "The river is just deformed, but its essence is still water. It can finally reach the sea and realize its dreams. The same is true for people. If you change yourself when the right time, you can achieve your goals. Perhaps you will also silently ask yourself, what is your essence? What do you insist on? What do you want to get? In fact, there are more than one form of life. When you cannot change others or the environment, the best way is to change yourself. Changes in form will not affect your essence. As long as your essence remains unchanged, you are still you, which is enough.
