Life is not smooth sailing. It always goes ups and downs. When we are in trouble, we are proud of our youth. When we are in trouble, what should we do to help us get out of the difficulties and gradually usher in a turning point?
First, accept the ups and downs of life. It is said that true heroism is to continue to love life after experiencing the hardships of life, understand the ups and downs of life, and face difficulties more calmly. The prerequisite for overcoming difficulties is to realize that you are already in a difficult situation, and the prerequisite for solving problems is to realize that you are facing problems. If a person who cannot tolerate failure is almost a devastating blow to him, it is difficult to adjust from failure. A person who understands victory or defeat is common in military affairs can quickly get out of failure after encountering failure, summarize the experience of failure, learn from the lessons of failure, and soon usher in the dawn of victory.
Secondly, a positive attitude is a good recipe. When we are in a difficult situation, we will inevitably have self-doubt and self-denial. At this time, pessimists will become more pessimistic, feeling that they do not have the ability and means to get out of the difficult situation. In the end, it will be even more difficult to get out of the difficult situation under the cover of this pessimistic mentality. Optimists often believe that there is no way out and believe that they will definitely find ways to get out of the predicament. Under the guidance of a positive attitude, it will be easier to usher in a turning point. In fact, in many cases, it is not scary to be in trouble. What is scary is that being in trouble is also shrouded by a pessimistic mentality. This is a great torture for the spirit, and it can be regarded as a kind of "mental internal friction" that is of no help to get out of the predicament.
Furthermore, finding a way out is the key. The best way to solve a problem is not to escape but to find a way to take the initiative to overcome it. Through the experience of overcoming difficulties again and again, we will gradually accumulate experience, so that when we encounter similar difficulties again, we will be able to solve them easily. To find a way out, you must first analyze the difficulties and find the most essential and core problem. Otherwise, you will easily be blinded by a leaf and disappear from Taishan . Then find breakthroughs for the essential core problem. When you cannot solve it independently, you must seek help from the outside world in time. Perhaps the experience or guidance of friends and family will make you suddenly realize.
Finally, divert your attention appropriately and adjust yourself. There is an old saying: I don’t know the true face of Mount Lu because I am in this mountain. When we are deeply trapped in trouble, we are prone to falling into a strange wall of thinking, but we cannot find the key breakthrough point of the problem. At this time, you might as well let yourself be empty and let your body and spirit temporarily jump out of the predicament. If you want to avoid being trapped in the predicament, you can only jump out of the predicament and examine the predicament from another dimension. The answer may be clear. As the saying goes, there is no way out from the mountain and the water, and there is another village with dark willows and flowers.
Dilemma is like a spring. It depends on whether you are strong or not. If you are strong, it will be weak. If you are weak, it will be strong. Only when you become stronger, you will not panic again.
