people seem to have to know how to be content after a big disaster. The calmness and transparency after feeling sad are both rewards from God. There are so many things in the world that I have gone through, but when I look back, I have already seen thousands of mountains and rivers. The rainbow is always after the storm, and the smile is always after the tears.
My lover was discharged from the hospital for serious illness. We lived in Tianma Mountain for a small living and walked slowly on the surrounding mountains every day. The most common thing is to sit and watch the clouds roll and spread, and to appreciate the endless changes in the sky. Every day, clouds of different colors and shapes come to the sky to explore the land.
admires all this and feels that everything is so beautiful. It seems that the hardships, hardships and fears I experienced before suddenly turned into a beautiful rainbow and was blown to the horizon by the wind.
Chapter 1 The sunset is infinitely good. Why fear the dusk is near
Life comes from hope. As long as there is love and hope in your heart, you will have infinite courage and strength, you can overcome all difficulties and pains, and create a miracle of life.
My lover said that the clouds in the sky seemed to be painted by a painter. "Look at the red sunset over there, does it look like an oil painting?" shouted like a lover and a child.
Looking at him happily, recalling the little things he had lying on the hospital bed and fighting against the disease before...
At that time, when he was in pain and wanted to give up, I held his hand and said: It would be morning to wake up from a nightmare. At that time, the sky would be very blue and the trees would be very green. You must keep your promise to me - hold my hand to see the scenery.
My daughter also said: Dad, you promised to take my mother around the world after retirement, and you must fulfill your promise!
Sometimes, for a person, love and hope are the support points of life, and they are also the brightest stars in people's eyes and hearts. The colorful rainbow only comes from the true nature of sunshine. People strive for a perfect life for themselves, which is from the hope of life without loss.
From the nightmare in July 2021 to the end of the last treatment on August 8, 2021, my lover experienced more than a dozen chemotherapy, relapse, chemotherapy, and two immunotherapy treatments . I saw how much sin I suffered and how much pain I endured, and how much pain I endured.
But I always believe that there is sunshine behind the dark clouds, and behind the sunshine is a rainbow. Therefore, we must not only enjoy the sunshine in life, but also share the ups and downs of life journey. Face the disease with love and optimism.
We survived, and we defeated one devil after another together. The pain, suffering, and fear finally passed. It was really a rebirth of Nirvana.
Now my lover holds my hand and walks through the countryside and valleys, talking to me about the beautiful scenery of "Cuiyu Danxia". Seeing the setting sunset and the red clouds in the west, I feel how lucky and happy we are!
Experience the lyrics of Liu Bannong "There are still some lingering clouds in the west, how can I not miss her?" Everything around me is so beautiful, and I can't help but burst into tears. Life feels so beautiful! Thank God for his gift!
night falls in front of the night, and the smoke from the wild farmhouses rises into the sky. At this moment, the smoke from cooking turned into gray and sparse artificial clouds.
Every time this time, we hold hands and walk slowly down the mountain. The coolness of the evening breeze outdoors and the delicious dishes on the indoor dining table are full of happiness everywhere...
Chapter 2 Trouble and people's hearts are seen, the warmth and coldness of the world in the ward
We will be amazed at the amazing beauty brought by the interlaced tree trunks, and we can also understand that fate itself is full of twists and turns, but some people cannot look at everything happening around them with a peaceful attitude, especially when disasters fall on themselves.
If you can accept it calmly, getting sick is actually a part of our life, then you can at least face the uneven journey of life with a smile.
More than two years of hospital treatment journey, what I saw in the ward was more love and warmth, but there was also the cruel reality of "husband and wife were flying in the same forest when the disaster was coming", some were affectionate, cold, and even more hatred.
can be said to show true feelings in times of adversity, and to recognize people's hearts over time.Only when you are in trouble can you truly feel the warmth and coldness of the world, true and false, and hit your heart!
In the ward, the couple from Yantai, Shandong, had just got married and suddenly found that their wife had a tumor. Since then, they embarked on a long battle for treatment in Beijing. Faced with suffering, the couple was happy every day...
The wife asked her husband to go back to work, but the husband said that the most important thing now is to accompany his wife to overcome the disease. The husband makes delicious food for his wife every day, even though he vomits after eating.
When his wife was feeling uncomfortable, he would tell all kinds of jokes to make him happy, just like spending a honeymoon in the ward. As long as they are together, they will look like a happy couple, which is enviable and touches the people around them...
Companionship and love are the best healing. In the face of blood and family ties, companionship is the most precious existence. Mr. Li's daughter from Lianyungang , heard that her father had a tumor, and quit her job without hesitation and rushed back from Japan to comfort and accompany her father...
I asked Mr. Li's daughter privately, wouldn't she regret or regret quitting such a good job? She replied: "At present, it is a success for me to accompany my father."
Hospital is like a small society, with warm and touching stories, and there are also super-loving people who "husbands and wife are flying together in the same forest." Such as a couple from , Beijing suburbs of .
This couple in their sixties are often covered with dark clouds, lightning and raindrops are like beans. When it was late at night, my wife would suddenly mutter to her husband who was lying on the hospital bed:
"The King of Hell asked you to leave for the third update and you would not wait for the fifth update. What are you thinking? I also want my daughter to borrow another 500,000. She just started working..."
The husband responded without showing any weakness as if he had changed his personal opinion: "I'm you..." Then all kinds of personal attacks came out in endlessly.
After the two of them started calling their daughters to complain, endlessly ignoring their daughters' feelings and the rest of the ward.
How much hatred and hatred do they have between each other? If they are like this, they cannot tolerate each other and torture each other so ruthlessly!
Although I don’t know the inside story of this family, maybe it’s because I have no good wife in front of the bed for a long time, or the quagmire of life has temporarily swallowed their minds. No matter what, I still feel quite sympathetic to the girl I haven't met. How troublesome it is to have such parents.
Looking at the dark "haze" in the sky, it droops and hangs, and cannot be kept. It reminds me of a pair of beautiful sisters in Changchun in the same ward during the second treatment of my lover. My sister was taking care of her seriously ill sister.
heard that the husband knew that his wife had an incurable disease, so he took a bag of pears and put them in the ward, and he had no trace ever since. "Li" is homophonic to divorce - divorce. I really hope this is the plot in the TV series, but unfortunately it is a cruel reality.
They have been married for 19 years. The daughter has just entered high school. The sister often scolds the man for his ruthlessness and innocence with tears. The sad and hopeless eyes of the sister beside her are really "the eyes are full of desolation, and she feels extremely sad!"
ward is like a mirror that reflects the warmth and coldness of the world, miniaturizing the sufferings of life, and performs various stories: husband and wife, children, sisters, all the true feelings, friendship, and ruthlessness are exposed without any concealment.
Ordinary simple life is a luxury for the family of seriously ill patients. In more than two years, I have seen all the warmth and coldness of the ward. It feels like there is no illness or disaster. Health is not everything, but without health there is nothing.
However, when the disease falls to us, there is no need to be afraid. In fact, getting sick is also a part of our life. Life is a hard journey, and each of us can only work hard to survive in the face of suffering.
Just like the Japanese writer Murakami Haruki said: "Whenever people always have to live around dark clouds, searching for the shimmer of romantic light."
Contemporary writer and painter Mu Xin When he was young, he was imprisoned three times, and his fingers were broken three times. Being locked in a dark and damp cell, eating rotten meals.
However, he did not fall into pain, but practiced writing on the paper that provided him with his writing check. After a few years, he wrote 650,000 words.
At the same time, black piano keys were also drawn on the white paper. At night, Mozart and Chopin were played on this silent keyboard, and conversations with the great man in the quiet darkness.
On the day of his release from prison, Mu Xin was dressed neatly, her leather boots were shiny, her waist was firm, and there was no trace of suffering on her face. Mu Xin is not afraid of hardship, he is just brave enough to face it, but just treats suffering as a seasoning for life.
Sometimes, when we cannot change the suffering in life, we must try to change our vision and mood like Mu Xin, so that the quagmire of reality will not swallow us up.
My biggest wish is to watch the ups and downs with my lover. Thank you for everything. Not only did we walk out of the hospital, we were able to drive together to see such beautiful scenery!
Three thousand worries, one thread is better than the other. There is no word easy in the adult world, but we can turn crying into a silent mode, collapse silently, and then recover silently by ourselves.
After all, although there are so many troubles to deal with in life, living is a good thing after all. So in the face of disaster, instead of complaining endlessly like the couple in Beijing, it is better to comfort each other, respond with an optimistic and strong smile, and overcome difficulties.
Chapter 3 Life is not easy, be grateful to life, treat yourself well
No one's life will always be smooth sailing. Life is like looking for candy in a pile of glass slags. No matter how hard or painful it is, you have to continue moving forward slowly.
Hu Ge Although he was lucky enough to survive a traffic accident, he left irreparable scars on his face. When filming " Myth ", the producer insisted that he use his bangs to cover the scars, otherwise it would affect his star image in front of everyone.
But Hu Ge said: "Since my scar already exists, I should face it calmly, accept it, and admit it. I don't want to be a star, I want to be an actor."
Hu Ge dared to face up to the huge changes in life and reexamine himself. His later filming " Langya Bang " played Mei Changsu with great significance and finally lived out an excellent self!
comes by chance, goes by inevitable, and let it go naturally. Everything is the best arrangement, and God has his own reasons for this arrangement. Never hold grudges, but be grateful.
Because all bad things will eventually turn into good things. If not, it means that it is not the end. As Slervo said: Hope is life, life is hope.
Jiangsu pig farmer Hongxiang, she went to Kuwait in 1991 and worked as a foreign worker. During this period, she spent several years cleaning the toilet. Later, when she was a waiter in a small shop, she was fired by the owner for helping others. When she applied for a hotel lobby manager, she was deceived into being a massage girl. Her passport was taken from another place...
She experienced all kinds of hardships, but she never compromised, failed again and again, persisted again and again, and finally made her own world in Dubai . Today, 30 years later, she has a construction company with thousands of employees.
She bravely accepted everything, whether it was luck or hardship, threw life into a mess, and gave life a beautiful sweater through her own efforts.
No one’s life can go well, and anyone can face all kinds of difficulties. But it is precisely because of the difficulty that there are challenges and interesting: because of the unknown, it may be exciting in the end.
yes, many of the ditches in our lives are like the clouds in the sky. Whether it is a terrace or a ditches, the key lies in how you view it.
If you can calmly overcome the ups and downs of life, these will become the scenery and wealth in your life. If you cannot accept it and complain constantly, they may be the last straw that will crush you.
If we regard every twist and ups and downs in life as God’s blessing, then we will be grateful for life and treat everything around us well. Including being grateful for the bad things in life, because they will give you a lot of rewards.
Sometimes life is like a mirror. If you smile at him, he will smile at you. If you cry at him, he will cry at you. People who are grateful and kind to life are smiling at the mirror.
The famous American deaf writer Helen Keller , when he lost his vision, hearing and voice power, not only learned a variety of languages, but also published 14 works.
She has such achievements that ordinary people cannot achieve because she has never given up hope for life. She is the one who always smiles in the mirror, so the mirror gives her a smile.
If you work hard, you may not succeed, but if you don’t work hard, you will not succeed. Think about the countless hardships of our grief and fear, the hardships of our lovers, financial difficulties, etc. in the past two years. But we were the ones who smiled in the mirror, so we finally defeated the disease.
Sometimes losing is also a kind of happiness. Only by experiencing the darkness can you feel the brilliance of the sun; only by experiencing the severe cold can you understand the value of spring warmth. The greatest happiness is to be free from illness, the heart, and the eyes.
Borrowing the North American Ge Cui’s catchphrase: Even if there are so many hardships in the world, five words float in the sky: "That's not a matter." If it is a matter, that is, for a moment, it will be fine in a moment.
Even if life is short, it is not easy for anyone to live, so let us be grateful, humble and content every day, the key is to be busy. It makes us so busy that we have no time to get sick or annoyed. This will naturally make the years quiet and the smile peaceful!
