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There are so many billionaires in the world, and we rarely jealous of any of them, but if someone around us is doing much better than us, we will feel uncomfortable.
Why? It’s just that we can’t reach billionaires and are not in the same circle, while the ordinary people around us are very similar to us.
Our eyes are too short-sighted and too limited, we can only compare with them, that's all.
So many times, it is not someone else who can’t stand us, but the people who are the most familiar and closest to us. If you find that a person often looks the following in his daily interactions, he is actually just shameful.
No matter who it is, don’t have a close relationship.
1: Speaking sarcasticly and sarcastically, making you unable to get off the Taiwan Strait in public
Those who always give you face and make you unable to get off the Taiwan Strait in public are actually not people who sincerely do it for your good, because they don’t care about your feelings, they just want to embarrass you in public.
Generally speaking, before they mock you or sarcasticize you, they will say in advance:
"I'll tell the truth, don't think it's bad, I'm doing it for your own good..."
But this is just a saying. Since you know it doesn't sound good, why do you still say it? If it is really for the sake of the other party’s good, why do you have to let others be embarrassed in public? Wouldn't it be better to give sincere advice in private?
People who are stupid, bad and hypocritical always have so many words. In fact, aren’t they just shame others for their good life?
People who always like to mock you or mock you, and threaten that for your own good, are not worthy of close contact. They just simply shame you and want to stumbling on you.
2: Spreading rumors and slandering you behind your back, never believe that you are doing well through your own efforts
You are doing well, and some people feel unbalanced and uncomfortable, and will find a way to frame you and dig a hole for you to jump. Because once you suffer, he will feel a little more comfortable, and the breath he has been holding back for a long time will be smooth.
This is the evil in human nature and we cannot change it.
When a person who can’t stand you in a good life and is doing well or is proud, he will spread rumors and slander you behind his back. He thought that if you ruin your reputation and the achievements you made, you would stand in the same position as you, no longer have to look at your face or look up at you.
In fact, he was wrong. From the moment he used such shameful villain to frame you, you have already stood in a different position.
You are open and honest, he can't be on the table, you are not the same person.
So many times, you don’t have to worry too much about it, and you don’t have to take it seriously and take it to your heart.
He will not believe that you are doing well through your own efforts, he will only think that you have gone through a wrong path or are simply lucky. If that's the case, why do you have to explain? Being better and becoming stronger is the best way to stay away from him.
3: Like to hit you and deny you, but imitate you secretly means that he is jealous of you but does not want to admit that
Some people always like to defame you as worthless, as if everything you do is not in his eyes, but he will not be able to imitate you behind his back and learn from you secretly.
This behavior just shows that it is fake for him to look down on you, and it is true that he looks down on you and is jealous of you.
In the TV series " Mountains and Seas ", Ma Debao is the first person to grow mushrooms in the village and the first person to make money. His neighbor Li Dayou was jealous and was very envious but did not admit it. He always attacked him in person, denied him, and said that this matter was unreliable and would definitely suffer losses.
But he secretly studied behind his back and set up a greenhouse to plant it himself.
, a person who is shameful and makes small moves behind your back when you are getting better, is actually very small. Only by keeping a certain distance can you make your life more peaceful.
at the end:
Human nature cannot be overestimated. In fact, there are not many people around you who sincerely bless you because you are doing well, so you must know how to be low-key in dealing with people. The so-called big tree attracts wind, why do you need to make enemies for yourself? Only by making a fortune in silence can you make yourself safer and go longer.
I hope each of us can know how to beware of those who are shameful to us. It is wise to choose good friends and make friends.
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