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Many times, people live in masks. You will never know whether he is the true appearance of him, and you can only slowly distinguish it from his behavior.
But some people pretend to be too good and can lie to you for a long time.
Some people usually look friendly and kind, but behind them is another completely opposite look.
For example, a girl you like is soft and cute in front of you, but it is also possible that you will lose your temper and swear at others. You were surprised by the contrast because you didn't understand her at all.
The way she shows is just what you are willing to see, this is just the tip of the iceberg.
Want to know if a person is worthy of deep friendship, you can tell what he posted on his Moments. No matter how friendly he is, once you start posting the following three types of friends, you can delete it.
1: Spreading rumors or slandering others behind the scenes, which means that one thing is behind the scenes, and there is something wrong with character
Some people look very friendly on the surface, but in fact they are very dark inside. You never know what small actions they will do behind the scenes. Until one day you are cheated by him, you suddenly realize: It turns out that some people can have many side faces.
Aqiang was once cheated by a colleague.
The two are competitors, and there is only one place to be promoted. That colleague has been in the company for a long time, and he always felt that the quota should be his own, but Aqiang's performance is obviously much stronger than him, so he has never been to be outdone. If
is fair competition, Aqiang will admit it even if he loses. Unexpectedly, he will make small moves behind his back.
He publicly published his circle of friends, openly accusing Aqiang of making connections with his leaders and giving him a lot of gifts. Although there is no evidence for these, the impact is still very bad when the leader and other colleagues find out.
As a result, Aqiang lost, and the colleague was successfully promoted.
In fact, the circle of friends is a small society, which contains everything and everyone has it. When a person is spreading rumors or slandering another person behind his back, you should know that there is a problem with the person's character and it is best not to have a close relationship with him.
2: Show off hypocritically, start bragging and packaging yourself to achieve some shameful purpose
Some people will try their best to package themselves in order to get into the upper class, and they will also deliberately show off and brag in their daily lives so that others can think that they have made great success.
Although they also know that lies will always be exposed one day, they don’t care, as long as they can achieve their goals at this stage.
I have seen such a girl in her life. She is full of famous brands and goes to check in for high-end afternoon tea every day, looking like a celebrity. But in fact, her monthly income is only a few thousand, some of them are rented, and some of them are fake.
The reason why she packaged herself like this is to catch a rich son-in-law. She thought she was beautiful and could attract rich people, so these investments were necessary.
Some men also do the same. They wear famous brands, either to attract wealthy and beautiful women or to do business with rich people. In short, this hypocritical illusion reveals their insincerity, so it is better to have less contact.
3: Complaint, negative energy is plagued by others and the anger is very discomfortable, but he doesn't care about other people's moods
In addition to the above two, there is another type of person who always treats his Moments as a trash can to vent his personal emotions. No matter how bad things happen, they will post them to Moments as soon as possible, and sometimes even lose control of their emotions and swear directly. Content like
makes people feel extremely uncomfortable after seeing it. If you are in a good mood, you will be affected by it. Over time, you will think about blocking it.
Actually, you know very well in your heart that if you don’t like this person, you won’t have too much interaction with such a person in the future. Instead of maintaining superficial harmony, it’s better to be cruel and block it as soon as possible.
It is like a black hole, and its impact on you is subtly influenced. Life is not easy anymore, so try to contact some people full of positive energy.
at the end:
Interpersonal communication is a science, don’t be confused by the appearance of others deliberately showing. The things on the surface are false and unreliable. Only by seeing the essence on the surface can one judge a person’s true appearance.
Be careful in everything, you will suffer less losses and be deceived less.
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