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mortal world, things are difficult to predict. Many things are like having a big dream. When you wake up, everything becomes a passing cloud. No one can regret it, and no one can start over again.
Living in the world, we always hope that we can get the best, we always hope that we can get what we want, we always think that we can control everything.
But reality is always cruel. The more you want to get something, the harder it will be to get something; the more you want to prevent something from happening, the easier it will happen; the more you want to be obsessed with a certain relationship, the easier it will be to lose someone.
"There are sometimes destined to be there, and don't force it in the destiny. Many things in life are actually destined. God has already arranged everything in the dark. The more you rebelled against God's will, the more painful you will be in your life."
Haste will not be achieved. We want to get something, and we want to succeed, but we can't come even if we are anxious. Sometimes, if we walk too fast and take too much, we will easily fall and achieve half the result with twice the effort.
Everything actually has a gradual process. We must do everything down-to-earth; we must do everything with sincerity. Only by accumulating all kinds of efforts can we get the results we want.
You should know that there is no turning back in life. Every thing we do and every decision we make is actually arithmetic. Everything will affect one's own future; every decision will be a ferry in life.
In life, don’t force everything too much. On the road of life, we can only save ourselves, rely on ourselves for everything, let everything go naturally, and live our lives naturally and leisurely.
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Life, don’t force love
fate destiny, no one can do anything to others. Who we can meet and who we can know is actually due to fate. Because of fate, two strangers can get together and have some kind of connection.
Love is a very beautiful fate in our lives. The two people share the same feelings, attracting each other, slowly approaching each other. In the moment when my heart was throbbing, we recognized each other for a lifetime and walked together in the days ahead.
But love cannot be forced. The fate that belongs to you will meet no matter thousands of mountains and rivers are separated; the fate that does not belong to you will not love each other even if it is close. If you force yourself, you will never be happy. Only by being in harmony with each other can you taste the sweet taste.
Friendship is a very sincere fate in our lives. Two people have common ideals and pursuits, help each other and accompany each other. When the other party is in trouble, both of them are willing to extend their helping hands.
At the same time, friendship should not be forcibly tied together. Everyone has their own ambitions, and no one must accompany anyone forever. When our friends have higher pursuits, we should know how to let go, give them the greatest support, and let them fly freely.
Whether it is love or friendship, we should not force it. The relationship that is barely obtained is very fragile. Only when both parties like it from the bottom of their hearts is a truly beautiful relationship.
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in life, don’t force gains and losses
As the saying goes: I am lucky if I get it, and I am lucky if I lose it.
In life, there are always various gains and losses. When facing various gains and losses, we must all know how to maintain a normal attitude to treat them. What we can get is our lifelong luck and worth cherishing; what we cannot get is our destiny, and we must learn to take it lightly.
God is fair. The gains and losses in our lives seem to be unsightly, but in fact they are balanced. When we get something, we will lose something; when we lose something, we can also get compensation in other places.
Everything in life has its own destiny, and even if we force it, we can't force it.Instead of being sad and sad in all kinds of love, it is better to protect what you already have and take light on the gains and losses in life.
In life, there is no need to force gains and losses. God has his own arrangements. He will do his best to do his best and let everything go with the will of heaven.
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Life, don’t force your heart
People live their whole lives, the most important thing is to be happy. Our lives do not need to be recognized by everyone or understood by everyone. No one should force us to live happily.
song "Not That Easy" sings: If you feel happy, just be busy. If you feel tired, just let yourself go. Listen to what others say and make your own decisions.
agrees deeply. Life is our own, and life is our own. There is no need to force ourselves to do whatever we want. Just smile and make your own decisions in your own life and follow your heart.
In life, we live not for others, but for ourselves. Don’t force yourself, don’t suppress yourself, and feel the beauty of life with the simplest and purest heart. Only in this way can you live your own wonderful life!
In life, don’t force everything, just let it go! May you and I encourage each other.
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