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Time is unforgivable. In the blink of an eye, before I knew it, my parents are old, my children are starting their own families and careers, and they are getting older.
Many things are easy to do when you are young, and you don’t feel any effort. When you get older, you will find that no matter how easy or simple things are, you will feel overwhelmed.
As the saying goes, "Whoever cares about old age will pity you when you are old."
People, once they get older, they must learn to leave a way out for themselves. When worrying about others, they must also think about themselves more.
Although "raising children can prevent old age", no one can tell the future. Instead of placing their hopes on others, it is better to do what they should do while they are still able to move.
Uncle Liu from the village next door is now seventy years old. Not only is he in good health, he also has enough savings to support his elderly care.
People of his age all lamented that they had no support when they were old and had no money to treat them when they were sick, but he was not worried at all. It was not because his children were so filial, but because Mr. Liu had no intention of relying on them at all.
When Mr. Liu was in his sixties, his wife was sick and needed money in urgent need, but his sons shook each other and said that they were burdened with heavy burdens and no one wanted to pay an extra penny.
It was then that Mr. Liu realized that no matter how close his children were, they might not be reliable at critical moments.
people, you have to rely on yourself for everything, especially when you are older and your health is getting worse and worse. If you don’t have any savings in your pocket, you can’t even afford to get sick.
So, since then, Uncle Liu has begun to make plans for his and his wife's future. In the past, Mr. Liu spent his monthly pension and pension on his children and grandchildren, but later Mr. Liu would try his best to save it.
Whenever I see that the elderly in the village are sick and no one cares about them, and even having to look at the faces of people when they have eaten, Mr. Liu will sigh, "You are a person, you must plan for yourself as soon as possible."
Yes, after fifty years, I have reached the age of knowing my destiny. Many people's feelings and worldly styles have been seen through. It is time to make some plans for my future life.
people are over fifty years old. The smartest way to live is: do these two things well.
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Save money: Don’t spend money randomly, don’t worry about your own wallet
A person who can’t save money, even if he has the ability to make a lot of money, he will be squandered in the end.
If you are still young, you still have willful capital, and you can spend money indiscriminately. If you don’t have enough, you can borrow some from relatives and friends and pay it back when you have money.
But I am over fifty years old and no longer young. My health is not as good as before in all aspects, and I can earn less and less money.
When you really encounter difficulties, you want to lend some to relatives and friends first, but when you see that you are old, you will worry that you can't afford to pay it back and find various reasons not to lend it to you.
Therefore, after you are over fifty, you must understand the importance of saving money, learn to save money, and don’t spend money as much as you used to.
When going out with friends to party, don’t rush to pay for the so-called face as before. Although there is not much left in your pocket, you still have to pretend to be a big shot, which will only embarrass yourself in the end.
people are getting older, and it is not easy for anyone. Don’t always think about taking advantage of others, and don’t always let yourself suffer losses.
people are over fifty years old. Learning to save money and not spend money randomly is to make plans for the rest of their lives.
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Exercise: Be healthy, you can rely on yourself when you are old
There is a saying that goes: the body is your own, and no one will pay for your health.
When I was young, I didn’t know how to cherish my body and stayed up late to work overtime every day just to make more money.
No matter how tired the body is, you can hold on. You always feel that your body is clear. As long as you don’t have any serious illness, everything is a small problem.
But after fifty people, you will find that a healthy body may collapse overnight.
So, don’t think that you are in good health and will only become stronger and stronger as you live, and just indulge yourself.
I have seen many elderly people who are too hardworking when they are young and have no time and energy to take care of their bodies. As long as some serious and minor illnesses are not very serious, they will choose to ignore them.
and so I am now suffering from illness and endure the pain every day.
People are over fifty, and their lives are already half over, so you should leave more time for yourself.
Even if your children still need your help, you should first care about your body.
You should know that a healthy body can not only make you feel more comfortable in the second half of your life, but also reduce the burden on your children.
You should know that being responsible for your own body means being responsible for your children. Don’t just overdraw yourself if you still can move now.
people are over fifty. Instead of worrying about others endlessly, it is better to spend more time exercising, go out for a walk, and see the outside world.
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Author: March.
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